Right, like... It's certainly more people than I've had sex with, but if you're being safe, learning about yourself and what you want, not getting into any emotional issues (for either party), and yes... having fun, great!
Also, 50 partners is like one per month through 4 years in college. Not totally outrageous to be honest.
"What woman wants" yeah here's your problem. They don't all want the same thing shocker
And nobody in their right mind would want to see teenage tantrums on their partner at age of 33. I have seen a lot older guys dating women under 18 and let me tell you something. Those guys aint exactly mature or winners. Or then they are just creeps
Yup - if you see someone single over 30 and there's not a good reason for it (work, military, study, trauma, recent break up) its probably because people their age see through their shit
When pedophiles try and use logic, it’s ALWAYS going to be a bad faith comparison that illustrates themselves as the virtuous knight in shining armor to women with zero agency.
That's assuming (a lot) about the 30 year old knowing more about "what women want" compared to their 16 year old self.
When I was a kid I always assumed there would be a point in life where I'd feel like an adult. You don't, you just get ground into the mould with responsibilities & stress!
The only difference between me aged 30 & 16 is grey hairs & white knuckles. I know jack shit about "what women want", other than "don't be a dickhead".
"the life experience to know what women want long term" hey dude a 65-year old woman has the life experience to know what men want long term. Why not go date a cougar?
Or how about be a parent and model for your child how to make good, healthy decisions with their power of reason (however that looks for your family) and trust them to figure it out.
If a teenager wants to date a 33 year old, that is obviously bad parenting. At that age she should be married for at least 7 years to someone to someone with real life experience, like a great uncle. /s
"I'm such a terrible parent that I know my daughter will make terrible decisions when she gains her independence because I spent eighteen years fucking her up beyond belief."
"I'm a 33 year old (virgin?) who has no idea what it's like to be a woman, seeking a girl young enough to not realize that my 'relationship maturity' is that of a 16 year old and I'll certainly give her plenty of emotional baggage. Also, if I ever become a father I'm going to make my daughter wear a purity ring. And no college."
And that 16 year olds don't want to date them. If they were having plenty of success they wouldn't be moaning about the "competition". They seem to be asking for parents to push their kids to date older men as it's a better choice (which it isn't).
I once worked with an 18 year old woman who was married to a 33 year old man. There was so much drama brought to the workplace when that marriage crashed and burned. I think there were in a similar place maturity wise, which is what caused it to fail.
Heterosexual age gap is about 2-3 years in the US and parts of Europe. It's almost like women are allowed to choose who they want to be with, and it's not a binary choice between a man with an undeveloped brain (allegedly) and a man who needs all the power in the relationship.
You know even with that bullshit choice being posited, choice B all day.
I wouldn't shame my daughter, a college grad who apparently practiced impeccable safe sex if 50 dudes in 4 years leaves her with only emotional baggage.
If my hypothetical daughter wanted to fuck 50 dudes in 4 years, I'd be damn proud. And hope that I provided ample knowledge about the risk of sex, the tools to mitigate those risks, and the empowerment to enjoy herself free of guilt from everyone else's bullshit opinions.