You heard it here, if anyone is attracted to hot blonde women such as myself, they are now gay, which means as members of the gay community, they have to support LGBTQ+ rights now.
I can see not being attracted to a muscular aesthetic (though I do I think the image here is a bit silly). I say that as a loser who'd let a jacked woman beat me to death with a waffle maker.
There’s a huge difference between going out of your way to announce that that’s not your type and just it not being your type. It’s similar to the difference between guys posting “no fat chicks” vs the ones who just turn down larger women and only say so when asked about it.
Ex-friend was much like that. Really tall dude, liked tiny, subservient women. One time him and his wife were over.
"I don't allow her to wear makeup or cut her hair."
Right in front of us all. For real. (She eventually escaped!)
And yes, I hung out with such a man. Typical, young right-winger, full of rage that the world he had seen and been promised, his grandad's world, his dad's world, was taken from him by "the others".
I was slowly turning him around. And it was working! Pussed out, gave up on him. Still feel bad about it. I might have saved him but for my lack of patience and moral courage.
I was slowly turning him around. And it was working! Pussed out, gave up on him. Still feel bad about it. I might have saved him but for my lack of patience and moral courage.
Don't blame yourself, it really takes a lot of energy and it's not like you're obligated to do that anyway. Besides, it could've never work 100% thus putting you in a kind of co-dependent relationship. Good for you to abandon toxic environment, I think.
Typical, young right-winger, full of rage that the world he had seen and been promised, his grandad's world, his dad's world, was taken from him by "the others".
Oh is that what their problem is I've always wondered what their issue was.
The thing is though both my grandfather and my father worked in coal mines. My grandfather in particular had all sorts of breathing problems and back problems because of this. I never wanted to live in their world. Those idiots have a rose tinted version of a world that never was, they have no idea what it is that they're pining after.
Why is gatekeeping straightness even such an interesting topic people fixate over so much? Contrapoints "Are Traps Gay?" video provided some quite compelling answers to that question FWIW.
The universe started from a mysterious dot, we're apes in clothes, and one day we will all be dust. It seems weird af to devote so much energy to worrying about the rules of which genitals interlock with which.
Anyone who, unsolicitedly, provides some kind of blanket statement about what is and isn't gay from a position of assumed authority, is gay as hell and in denial.
I've heard it comes from WW2, there was big push of segrating women and men to push the ideal "if you're a man you'll fight for your country to protect your girl/mum back home". (Yes even though many of them were just kids).
Hence why many came home with severe trauma clinging onto the ideal of "Im a guy, I must do this" and being pushed to "show no emotion and no other guy is allowed to" training from the military that got passed onto their male children.
Leading to the 90s to view LGBT quite negatively particularly in some media in things people would say.
Logically continuing this thought, is it then absolutely straight for a dude to be into the most feminine twinks if being into slightly less-than-average feminine women is apparently gay?
Is been latently gay different to just being normal gay. Does it require the right person to activate it or something? If I stay in the house and don't get out much it's possible I'll never meet them. I may get married have some kids and be perfectly happy and never work out that I'm actually gay.
Considering a youtuber recently got his family doxxed because he made a kinda effeminate video video celebrating him liking women, I'm going to go with what I think is the best response: Yeah man, I'm a guy and I'm gay for women, go deal with that.
I think the person is saying not that it's insecure men that don't prefer muscular women, moreso that men that feel insecure when a woman is muscular are the ones that tend to say things like "liking a muscular woman makes you homosexual"
Even if that was true, I don't have problem with that. On the other hand, what's with those jeans? Was she in a war or something? It has to be pita to put them on.
They are. I had a girlfriend that was really into them and she had to lie down to put the jeans on otherwise she'd fall over, which was funny but stupid.
Dunno. Rubric seems flawed. Might be easier to ditch the straight/gay/bi system to the more dynamic Androsexual/Gynosexual/Skoliosexual/Spectrasexual/Pansexual system?
Like I am a Non-binary dude who doesn't find this person attractive... Am I gay? Fuck if I know! The homo/heterosexual calculator errored out long before now.
There are a lot of dumb things in that comment, but using gay in a pejorative way is up there. While finding a woman attractive is certainly not gay, there is nothing wrong with being gay, so this is double stupid.