As long as it’s distributed and peer to peer, like where each of us independently asks another human being on a date without relying on a central service.
Imagine if it WAS a centralized service. Like imagine you could ONLY go on dates at TGIFridays. Thats just where you go to meet people to date. Or hang out at the bar if you're just looking to get your dick sucked.
And I'm not exaggerating btw, I actually think saying one in a thousand fediverse users is a) a woman, and b) is willing to hook up, is generous. Plus there's probably 10x as many trans women as cis women in that category.
The fediverse is ridiculously male, or at least assigned male at birth.