i was primarily a lurker and very rare contributor on the old DT but this place seems nice. hello!
i thought i loved watching internet drama unfold but turns out not so much when it impacts the communities i frequent.
Nice! I asked for more time off yesterday as well to give me some more breathing space. Savings might take a bit of a hit, but I'm not going to be a good employee for another month or two at least.
I'm not sure why anyone would want to use the Reddit DT after seeing the content from who is left over there vs here. I kinda don't want most of them to come over, the vibe here is too good lol
Agreed. It's much nicer over here .
Similar thing happened with the menopause sub on the weekend, so I'm sticking with the menopause community on Lemmy (believe me no one needs all that bad juju amongst menopausal people haha)
I've really only been going over to Reddit for sewing stuff cos there isn't much here.... Yet
While I did say earlier it was good to see the DT once again on r/melbourne, I figured it might be best to make an account here on the Aussie Zone so I can read up on happenings over here as well. Hello, once again, !melbourne.
Unpopular opinion, but it seems like the mods little protest is working. Most members are pissed about all the Florida posts, 90% of the DT is people whinging about it. I don't imagine anyone who stumbles across the sub now would want to stay
I wonder if it's worth a few of us dropping into the DT to say where the real convo's at. But I also don't want all the Reddit drama to end up here so...
It’s brutal in there. I’ve been following the API drama, and I can see the mods point about the mod tools becoming inaccessible. but then also read that many tool may not be affected now because there’s a threshold that needs to be met to be charged, and most of the mod tools fall under it? (I could be mistaken). But I honestly cannot see how posting about Florida will get any meaningful interaction or concessions from Reddit. I mean how exactly is it supposed to help? So I think I’m also on the unpopular opinion that it’s just people having an arms crossed foot stamp with no real action plan in mind.
Pretty sure the goal is that it pisses people off enough that they leave Reddit. Then it's technically not the mods forcing them off by setting the sub private, it's the users deciding they don't like the theme of the sub and choosing to leave. They seem to be removing links to other subreddits, but not to other communities on other platforms.
(The main thing that triggered this was that the Reddit admins sent the mods a message basically saying "open up now, or we will find someone who will", but they also said mods are otherwise free to run the sub how they see fit)
But also, I can't help but also feel like some people would be particularly unhappy about the entire blackout/protest situation as it is.
Some of the other subs already have people complaining about how some mods didn't get user consensus before proceeding, something that gets extra fuddled by some of the mods (of other subs) proving themselves to be hypocrites and hurting the movement as a whole.
I'm not supposed to drink coffee normally this month because it could stain my temporary veneers, so I've been drinking iced coffee with straws. Until right now. As I sit outside this Bourke Street cafe, headphones adorned, audiobook playing while I people watch; I have before me a large, perfectly hot Melbourne coffee. A beverage I have not put to my lips since the beginning of winter.
I'll only have these teeth for 7 more days. Stain be damned.
Years ago, I would have been raging against the injustice of this bs. I guess I’m no longer in my youth, cause right now I’m more than happy sitting this one out and just watching from the side lines. Growing up feels strange.
I just discovered Aussie.Zone has a pictures community. I'm going to share some of my favourite Aussie holiday snaps there. It would be nice to get a bunch of photos in there from all over Australia, expecially if they have a bit more local flavour rather than just the aussie landmarks. So I've started with some bats from the colony on the Yarra.
Today is the day I ask my doctor for a cert for stress leave and I'm so nervous I feel ill. I really want to ask for a full two weeks, but I feel like that's a lot to ask for just off the cuff. It would be the perfect amount though and I would get to skip my night shift rotation which is desperately what I need.
Tell the doctor what you feel you need. If you are stressed it is from putting your job ahead of your own needs, and you won't get better by continuing to do the same thing. Better to have the two weeks you need now than have half the time now and four weeks later because you didn't allow enough time to recover the first time.
When I’ve discussed this with my GP before, they said one week for sever stress might help, but it’s really not enough. Hope your GP takes the same approach and gives you the time you need.
You know you must be getting older when you're excited you stocked up on toothpaste that was on special at the chemist...(PSA: Oral B is only $2.49 at Richmond Traders Priceline today)
I go to Coles because I love the joint. I love fucking searching for shit that should be there but it's not. So I have to make a right hand turn into the carpark and there's some wank coming out trying to make a right hand turn in to my street. He starts beeping. I wind down my window and yell "oi what are you doing mate. You've got a stop sign". His arms start screaming at me. I let the dickhead go because I'm polite and he puts his foot down and nearly takes out the car travelling straight. Urgh fuck me.
Funny what a difference it makes when you have people at work that have similar common interests than you do. Not to shit on people who love reality TV, but hearing that kind of stuff day in, day out in the office is enough for me to put my headphones in and drown the noise out with whatever genre I want for the day.
Change the topic to videogames and sure enough 30 minutes goes by in a blink (to which I'm sure those who want to talk about reality TV are then chucking headphones in themselves haha).
One of my other big loves is pro wrestling, which is like... violent soap opera (in the easiest way to ever explain pro wrestling). Some of the people I know who love reality TV scoff at pro wrestling claiming it's scripted and fake. Which is true, but reality TV is no different... but at least with pro wrestling the physical element takes practice. Reality TV just seems to be "influencer A has a beef with influencer B, which influencer C tries to remain relevant".
Had a conversation about Starfield and how one of the older blokes at work couldn't get his head around it being a Microsoft exclusive - which then sent me into a dialogue about the current Activision buyout that's going on, as well as explaining No Man's Sky and how people are comparing it and Starfield (and how the devs have to say that the games are different).
But also a mate at work who's into RimWorld, which is weird because the types of conversations you have with other RimWorld users often leads to some really suspicious activities and then having to justify them - which is fine for other RimWorld players, but maybe not people who have either never played the game, or haven't played a videogame since Tetris on the OG GameBoy.
Yo I’m gonna be honest, I’m sad about all this. Like my minds struggling to contain whatever this complex mixed up emotion is. Like I said in the dt before everything blew up, I’m not good at goodbyes. And part of me just feels like this is an end of some description, like nothings gonna be the same again. I don’t like change.
I feel like the community's been broken up, and I also feel sad. Instead of being in one place we've become divided, with some at Reddit and some here, some on discord and others forming new breakaway Reddit subs. I do like the vibe here better, it is definitely much nicer and more supportive in my opinion. Maybe it's all the anger over there, or maybe I'm wary because a handful of people just closed the sub without any consideration for the users and it could happen again. I'm definitely here to stay, but I miss what it used to be as well. We had a great thing and they broke it.
Just realised ive been active in that sub for over 10 years now, the DT has been through a number of changes in that time, people have come and go, i met people and forgot them, ive had some really good times over the years. Maybe just try to think of it as the end of a chapter, if you stuck around long enough its likely that alot of the people that kept you there would have changed or moved on to other things anyway.
I miss my old mate Brian, i cant even remember his username anymore (thanks ADHD), he was around in what i think of as the peak of DT, we were doing regular meetups and we were hitting 1000 comments a day on the reg. He was a great guy, i hope he is doing well
I know said yday that I was probably gonna just stay lurking but idk, I like the vibes here 😎
I'm on uni break atm but, for some reason, remembered today about the mandatory work placement/internship unit I have to do for my bachelor's. I probably won't be graduating before the first half of 2025, so I technically have until then to do it but still - suddenly stressed out lmao
Yay! The vibes here are nice, huh? I'm hopeful we can keep it up and keep attracting people like yourself to drop in and have a chat!
It's a double edged sword, the ol' placement/internship thing. Like, on the one hand you're giving free labour out and if you have a job that's not in that field it can mean time away without income. But without it you need the experience to get into the market. I hate that... I hate that we don't get paid for it. It's one of the reasons why I've decided not to pursue my Masters in Counselling. I get that you need the placement hours (especially for something like that), but given the way things are going economically at the moment, losing out on a month's worth of money in the long term isn't ideal.
Yeah exactly right about the double edged sword! I study online because I work full time in a low-paying, unrelated job that I couldn't quit in order to study full time because, yknow, the state of things currently lmao I'm lucky enough that my situation means I'll probably be OK doing an unpaid placement, but I know for sure alot of other students in my classes aren't in a similar position, and that really really sucks especially because it's a mandatory unit - it's not even something we're choosing to do to "get ahead" or something.
But not pursuing your Masters, you totally get it. I hate that people need to make those sort of decisions based on financial reasons. Especially since alot of times, financial situations are too influenced by outside factors.
I kind of like that it's mandatory to do it at this uni, but I also kind of wish I had finished my degree six years ago at the uni that didn't require an internship in order to graduate haha
But I think that's just nervousness and anxiety talking because it certainly doesn't hurt doing one
Briefly had a look at the Australian subreddit. My God, the racism over there is disgusting. It's been very visibily brigaded by the no-campaign, yet the mods do nothing.
Really, really glad I'm moving on from reddit, if only because I'm sick of seeing this shit.
Moving this community to a smaller site will drop so many of the brigading trolls that swing by the big subs and topics. I'm suspicious of social media, all that racism could be coming from a few people with many accounts.
I'm still mad that I got banned for 7 weeks for talking about politics when other people were talking politics in a thread. And IIRC it was pretty tame too.
The Canada sub was the same with the posts about Canadian Muslims protesting drag queen story times and sex ed for kids. Full of hate for Muslims, lefties, snowflakes etc.
PSA: r/melbourne mod is removing the links we posted directing people here (and comments telling people about other replacement subs). We will have to direct message if we want to invite someone here.
I finally figured out what I was doing wrong when putting links in posts. Silly me was putting the words I wanted to appear outside the square brackets and creating a link with no words to click on.
So for any other people needing a super-basic linking walkthrough, you put the words you want to show in square brackets followed immediately by the link in normal brackets. [words](link)
Which is a very sensible thing to do. I was going with pasting the link and then clicking the icon which was really not working for me. I'm slowly learning.
That would do it. But it doing that is a bit of a nostalgic reminder for how Reddit used to do spoiler tags before they implemented them properly.
You basically put a link [with the spoiler](#s and hid the spoiler text like a URL, like so) [with the spoiler](#s and hid the spoiler text like a URL, like so), unfortunately, it doesn't work as well when it comes to Jerboa and apps, since there's no way to see a link without trying to go to it straight away.
u/Snazzy21 has re-appeared on old DT and is confused. I deleted my account on reddit - maybe someone could DM him as I can't now. Not regretting deleting account though.
i'm a nerd, im a dork
i like veggies, i like pork
i had tea, i stay up late
im full of guilt and shame
i like wine, i like beer
i like coffee in the eve
you know i really wish that i weren't so lame
Aww I think the party is over with the Florida posts on reddit.. my new post was removed as soon as I submitted it. I wanted to continue my 'gators fuckin in my yard' cinematic universe.
I'm kicking goals today.
Coffee beans have been roasted and leek & potato soup has been made.
The new mattress topper from Koala arrived (thanks to whoever mentioned getting one sent free!) and has been put on the bed along with new sheets. Old bedding is in the washing machine.
A grocery order has been made and will be arriving later today - Coles gave me $10 off if I spend $100 via the app, so I added a couple of things to stock up on and bought $10 of freezer bags to donate to the food pantry.
I've ordered some different types of kitty litter to try, hopefully Miss Meow will approve.
And coles just told me they have substituted medium bags for the large. Seriously, different sizes are not the same thing. Annoying. Hopefully they will refund the money and I can buy more large ones.
I've been trying to wean myself off this 10 year old dual-screen desktop PC for a while, it's a Win 7 and Office 2010 setup that's no longer supportable. But it's been the cornerstone of my life for a decade and I flick it on first thing in the morning because that's what I've always done. PC first, then the kettle for tea.
I bought a snazzy Win 11 gaming laptop late last year but it's barely been used. I need to sort my shit out and finally migrate to it, and today might be the day. I've got all the personal and business email accounts working, an Office 365 licence, and OneDrive cloud storage sorted. Went to Officeworks for a second monitor this afternoon (went in for a basic 24", came out with a 27" curved gaming one. Of course I did).
The new house has a study nook with a really long desk surface, so I reckon I'll be able to run both setups side-by-side, but I'm in cable hell and it's going to take some effort to unravel everything. Wish me luck, friends.
Productive day today! Was asleep before 10 (unheard of) and slept right through, had a sesh with the coach and did a bit of tidying, then walked up to the little local supermarket to get supplies and a pastry from the little South American cafe which I was craving yesterday when they were closed.
Now relaxing on the couch while I plot my next move. g
fucking moths will eat the wool out of a wool mix jumper, leaving weird thin patches
fucking moths ate a hole in an aklanda wool jumper I got for miss seagoon , moths ate a hole in my nice zip up jacket
I recently bought a fancy rice cooker (upgraded from the trusty cheapo kmart one button one), and this one has a smaller cup capacity (3c instead of 6 or 10) which is perfect for 2 people who don't need huge quantities of rice. Plus it made amazing rice, including brown rice which I've never managed to cook well before! Very happy hehe
Had a persistent tickly cough for weeks so I've been trying to get a lot of sleep, today woke up from the worst nightmare, woke up crying and I'm still a little shaky. Fuck you terrorists. 😭
it took a week of extra sleep and lots of bisolvon lozenges ( which have nasty sugars but I thought a week of gas was worth getting rid of the tickle )
Mine went the other way and resulted in a nose that would drip freely. Wearing a mask helped greatly when I was out and about, since I could stuff tissues up each nostril without anyone knowing.
I'm confused, please can someone explain? So the Reddit DT is up again and some of the regs are posting there (and some here also). There's also Florida things. What's happening? Are we staying here or migrating back? Argh!
They (probably?!) did a poll on discord to decide to maliciously comply and change the sub to Melbourne, FL. There've been multiple times when they should've done a poll properly on reddit but they didn't, so some of that anger is justified. With the r/melbourne posts about Melbourne gone, many of the usual post-commenters are angrily commenting on the DT. I'm staying.
Might have made more sense to make the poll on the subreddit itself, though. If you're not on the discord, and are just on Reddit, it might seem a bit unilateral for it to suddenly change out of nowhere.
Mods are in protest of reddit forcing them to reopen by changing the rules of the sub to be about Melbourne Florida. A lot of other subs have done the same, but the r Melbourne mods havnt gone about it in the best way.
I agree with the malicious compliance. But having a DT amongst it feels... Weird? Like I stated yesterday, I'm staying here unless everyone decides to move back over to r/Melbourne.
Kind of funny, though. It's like life proceeding as normal, despite a hurricane. The dog is being blown halfway across the country, but you absolutely must go to the coffee shop, where everything is obstinately normal, in spite of everything.
I feel like home is where you make it. At least this has all the vibes of DT + Melbourne for that matter without the daily wrecks that seem to be happening.
All of it has just been too weird and I just want some calm.
Late night coffee, how very European
Though they may not have meant at 1am
You only live once, and it may be quite short
So indulge, treat yourself, this isn't all for naught.
I’ve only just sat down to relax after a long day of work and running around the place. And it’s already close to my bedtime, sigh. Now catching up on the latest Melbourne subreddit drama. Glad this place exists to avoid it all, the updates posted here are all I need to know.
If you are a fan of eating the candy Fantales, I would recommend stocking up now as the company will be discontinuing it. I’m seeing… while stock lasts
I hate me for getting up early with all the intention to go into work and then the minutes tick by I'm like...nah...nah...nah. and I got up early for nothing.
I do have to wonder whether this who separation from the DT, and whether those that stayed behind compared with those that came in here will create some kind of rift. I don't know... this kind of bullshit feels all highschool-like to me. Could be I'm over dramatising, though.
Is tonight supposed to be cold as again? Last night was not pleasant. I even tried to sleep with pj pants on (last all of an hour before I went “nah fuck it, it rather freeze”)
Do you ever wonder how many times you've sat in the exact seat you're sitting on in a tram? Or who else of note may have sat where you are? Shoutout to the 11 up Collins because it doesn't get as much recognition as the trendy tram lines.
Yeah any clothes I wear on public transport immediately go in the washing basket when I get home. I’m not sitting on my couch/chairs etc with my germy tram or train clothes.
I think the poetry has infected my brain. I keep trying to rhyme everything.
Today's the perfect weather for the soup I'll be making
As well as for the slices of pumpkin I'll be baking
They'll go in the freezer for a future lunch
Cause a hot vegie toastie is great to munch
So /r/melbourne is back and I'll be able to save my journal. Did back to April last night and will do some more later today. Was actually pretty good reading it back. No, "holy shit that's right!" moments yet, but fuck it was a relief.
Today I have been doing functional crap but finally set my delay and distortion pedals up with all associated leads and the pedals off the floor so the cats can't chew them. Its running through Aux 1 so I can again put a nice echo effect on stupid things like youtubes. Not as fun as when I used to wake and bake but still at least its all working again. Glad I kept that little piano stool. It was nearly taken to the opshop three times I think. Still need to cable up the dj setup amp and speakers but lost my motivation. Another coffee I think, pic attached so you know what heck I'm talking about if you're not a muso. If you are, in before the metal zone (yuck), it's fine.
Scored a nice red pvc jacket from the opshop, put some other recent jacket scores in for repairs, with both costing more than the jackets, but they're worth it. Bought one of those cat tunnels and the cats tired themselves out playing it, really happy with that. I bought a cheap one though and it's a bit shit but it'll do, they don't understand money.
Taking the last of my stuff I need to downsize out of my life to the opshop soon. Fuck... it's almost all done! I've slowed down in the last six weeks cos I was on a bender, but I've stopped drinking and back on top of things. Also finally getting the hang of liquid eyeliner which seems like a big step in the right direction.
Edit: Also nice to post the daily thread for you all, seriously, this place feels like more of a community than the old dt and it was great.
Does anyone have specific ways to budget? Whether this is using apps or specific spreadsheets? Budgeting is hard, and especially with ADHD I'm like "ooo money" and I've gotten into some serious trouble from spending money and forgetting about the responsibilities I have. There's the 50/30/20 rule which seems pretty doable. I might change my health insurance to be paid monthly instead of the fortnight it was originally set due to being paid fortnightly (this new job will pay me out monthly instead).
I was extremely disorganised with dinner prep which means I'm having a third of a leftover chicken thigh and some stir fry veg for dinner. Man I don't even remember when this chicken was from lol.
I have discovered the secret to getting through a full workday in the office without feeling like a nap. Please don't do the maths on how much sugar I had today...
Energy drink (Kiwi Mother in this case) for breakfast
Large coffee with 2 sugars for lunch
Medium coffee with 2 sugars at 3:30pm with Work Dad
Get interested in learning how to do some NQL scripting and manage to extract some juicy data to share with Work Dad and Work Grandad
Blast some feel good folk & acoustic tunes through my headphones
Hey @baconmash@[email protected] I've been scrolling through the DT and I've seen a couple more regulars. I don't recognise like 90% of people there, and I think some of them may be here already (but my memory is just no good today, and they aren't on the spreadsheet). Have they been messaged and decided not to migrate, or were they forgotten?
nufan86
BIG_YETI_FOR_YOU
AlamutJones (they are on the sheet, but just have a -- for the messaged section) wow I should definitely read the sheet before jumping to conclusions next time
I posted in there and received a response from MajorBear saying they're "old and don't like change".
I think we're just going to have to live with the idea that we're going to be a little fractured for a time. Maybe we'll end up together again eventually. Hopefully we do.
also epicpillowcase didn't come over - has anyone messaged her? I've deleted my account or I'd do it. Haven't seen justkitten either tho she may be taking a break from screen time.
No they had not been messaged (I hadn't messaged mr snrub yet) but I guess we don't have to anymore unless we want to personally invite them over here? We've been posting our link there rather often. I'll keep doing that every morning at breakfast time.
TIL that if I buy or get something from a rich company that morally I shouldn't have to pay for it and it's ok if I stiff them. ( but aren't all of us in the West rich compared to 90% of the rest of the world? )
Do you have a full licence? Mines just renewing learners. It's weird that you have to go in for renewing learners, I get like if you're getting your for the first time but this a renewal. Very weird...
I'm creating my uni timetable with a bit of a dilemma.
Do I have classes on two days of the week and jam them all together, or do I spread it across three days and spend the two days where I only have two or three hours of classes watching lectures on campus so I don't get distracted at home?
My pros of the three day: more time on campus, will force me to wake up earlier as have to be on campus early for three days of the week
Cons: more time commuting, might want to go home after two hour class and might not be worth going all that way for such a short class.
Today is going alright I guess. got the security alarm settled. waiting to hear back from the lawyers that I enquired about ppsr removal. contacted gray's online and wrote an email to teach them how to do their job. some packages come in XD and I finish my catch-up Japanese class. looking forward to Friday as I am going out to see the lightscape at the botanical gardens. tomorrow I got a lunch gathering, a dental surgeon appointment and maybe I might hit up the night market and queue for the latest ramen shop that opened in the CBD. backto playing more diablo
I was cruising for German recipes and I came across hackbraten (German meatloaf). This will pair nicely with my chocolate bavarian that's been in my freezer for the past 3 weeks.
Hey brains trust, I need your help with a translation.
Does anyone know of/can think of a word that’s the same/similar to ‘automaton’ that has a bit more… humanity to it? The original uses the word ‘sleepwalker’, but that doesn’t really work well in this translation. Automaton fits a lot better but is too anachronistic. ‘Zombie’ is also anachronistic and is out.
I’ll include the segment I’ve translated so far below under spoiler tags because it’s not exactly pleasant to read. So don’t click/read if you’re not feeling it. Context for those that don’t know: Hiroshima survivor testimony.
spoiler
We were standing in the hallway on the first floor, though it seemed more like we were standing at the gates of Hell. Burnt and wounded naked bodies were crouched all around, screaming and writhing in agony. It was just like hell. I was terrified. I was really, truly afraid to be among such people. But I didn’t have the strength to run away. Before I knew it, I became an automaton, not knowing who I was or where I was going. Once again, I collapsed to the ground where I stood.
I’ve been staring at this word for like an hour trying to work out the best fit.
Automaton seems fine to me - has been in use for a long time too - pre-dates WWII. I think it once referred to clockwork mechanisms certainly since 17th/18th century. Such as those gifted to chinese emperors etc. This seems to fit your context. 'autopilot' is anachronistic, but would fit with current usage.
Hmm 🤔 ok, good to know. I’ll have to do some digging into its usage.
My other problem with it though is that it kind of strips the ‘human’ aspect of their experience away. That’s how it feels to me, anyway. Do you get that feeling when you read it?
It’s also maybe slightly too high of a register for the way this person writes/talks.
That could definitely work at some points that the term has come up, especially as an equivalent simile (and I’m going to steal it and store it away for the next time I comes up). Not quite the same thing here though 🤔
Well it’s really a condition caused by a rapid and severe onset of mental distress otherwise known as “shock”.
So one could work around the clunky sounding name of automaton or sleepwalker by describing with synonyms for shock, such as “fell into a stupor” or something similar.
I know you’re a smart cookie and probably thought about that already but sometimes for the sake of reader engagement a little leeway might be made?
Made some spam, kimchi, fried rice... Though of course when making it I made a bit too much to fit in my Bento lunchbox. Means I'll have to have some on Thursday... I wanted to reward myself with sushi aww... Oh well.
I'm not usually one to do this but I am rugged UP for bed tonight! I own these flannel PJ pants but usually they're just for movie nights on the couch. Tonight they get a run at what they were made for coz I'm one freezy bull. Shits about to get real cuddly up in here.
Does anyone have a fridge that makes a moaning noise, mine started doing that a few weeks ago. Trying to figure out if the fridge is making those noises or if our neighbours are just overly passionate 24/7…
The compressors on older fridge sometimes do that. Just ensure the compressor coils and fan get a decent clean. In fact clean them anyway, it will run more efficiently.
I think I have finally fixed a problem with my computer going to sleep and not waking up. Some sort of virtual keyboard that had a driver installed was blocking it from responding to my actual keyboard while in sleep mode. I still haven't worked out why it was going to sleep when the settings were set not to.
Has anyone here tried creating a post in c/Melbourne from another Lemmy instance? I just made a post and seems like it's not appearing in the home instance...