Inducted a guy at work employed by our labour hire company, who admitted that he has no fixed address and slept in his car out the front of work last night.
He's framing it that he's doing van life but I could see that there's likely more to it.
I've put him on to a community pantry and I'm bringing him some bedding, basic toiletries, and a towel tomorrow. He said no initially but agreed when I told him it was things my husband wanted me to throw out anyway.
Really threw me with how open he was with it all. Left me really checking my privilege too.
in this economy there's no shame in it. A person could be in a two wage family and they still can't find a place because there is a housing shortage. It's like musical chairs.
Today we finally had to move my nana into respite care. She’s not taking it well. Neither are we
Today Mr Omoikiri is having his wisdom teeth out. And while it’s completely routine and there no danger in it, I’m sick with worry and waiting around to get the call that he’s fine and I can go and pick him up.
Today I have to review this 80,000 word thesis and get to back to my supervisors.
I am so mentally and emotionally drained and my day isn’t even half done.
Oh, that’s a lot all at once. Best of luck for Mr Omoikiri and your thesis review, and that your nana becomes more settled in respite. It’s so hard for people in that situation to understand that it can actually be a good thing for both them & their carers. Have been through that with my dad & understand what you’re going through. hugs
My boy Rocky has been doing so well at school, we've been promoted from Advanced Beginner to Intermediate! We'll be focusing more intensely on our heel work and extended stays now
Day 9 of 30 day exercise plan. It's working! I looked in the mirror this morning and noticed subtle changes in my body which are really encouraging and positive. I'm so happy! I can't wait to tell my manager at work. She partly prompted me to start thinking about it in the first place. She had to do a test where you run on a treadmill for 10mins while they monitor your heart (pressure test). While I'm physically strong (lifting and carrying 20kg sacks of potatoes will do that to ya) I thought, "Could I run on a treadmill for 10mins? I'm strong but I'm not cardio fit at all." Then I started thinking, "I'll be 50 this year, you gotta do something about it. Do something for yourself. You're overweight, just like your parents were, and they did nothing about it and died!" Sorry for the morning dramatics, but I didn't want to end up like that.
Well done! I've started doing more exercise as well. Tummy has already responded. Thank you planks and push ups and leg raises. That a load of squats and a decent walk moving to long walks again should see me ok. My gait has changed, my centre of gravity as well so my balance is less intuitive than it was and yesterday showed me I'm not flexible enough. Decent journey ahead, but I'm still not in bad shape luckily.
I can't see any reason why the bot did not post last night. There was no error, it just didn't do it. The only thing I can think of is that midnight is causing a problem, I will change the time to a couple of minutes after midnight and see if that works. Every test post I have done has worked as scheduled with no problems. Fingers crossed for third time lucky I guess.
The new wifi dongle arrived this morning, hopefully being able to connect directly instead of piggybacking off the phone will give it more confidence to stay out late and mingle.
I've been seeing occasional odd behaviour on the server that seems to be database maintenance related. It happens sporadically throughout the day, with no pattern that I can see. When it happens, I've noticed a few brief periods of errors browsing the site. Its possible your bot has been unlucky and attempted to post during one of these times.
I'm hoping lemmy 0.18.1 will resolve this, I know there has been a lot of effort put into optimising database queries etc. If it doesn't, I'll dig into it further and raise a github issue with the lemmy devs.
For some reason it didn't even try to post, so it definitely wasn't an error from the server. It has been triggered to make the post at the right time for every single test post I have done, which is why I think there might be something specific about midnight that is causing some issues.
Damn Bot. It was awake all night. No crashes, no timeouts. It just didn't post anything. I'll have to sit down for a debrief and try to figure out what went wrong. After coffee.
Well, with how it is going so far it would be easier to just set an alarm at midnight to do it myself 🤣
Once I get it working it will be nice though, especially if I can get the pinning working at some point. That might take a while though. I'm also hoping one day to have the bot make a comment in the previous thread when the new one is posted, but given the current rate of progress that will probably be sometime in 2027.
I have 5 tabs opened of shit I need to finish today, and I keep getting interrupted. Afternoon is filled with meetings...which is when I'll end up doing my work
Thanks @Thornburywitch! The bot was not the only thing malfunctioning, just after setting everything up nicely and getting ready for bed, I nearly bricked my rather expensive work device the night before a field visit.
Thanks to a stray comment on an old post online, I finally managed to revive it over an hour later, even though it honestly felt like some dark magic and only worked after about 9 tries (and some stress relieving cleaning). Certainly some witchy intervention there as well, I suspect.
I spent way too much time today perfecting my pay calculation spreadsheet. But is now a little neater, includes more automation, and calculates the super I should be getting as well as the pay.
We have a ridiculously complicated pay structure, so I have 7 types of leave, 6 types of overtime payment, 6 different penalty levels (there are more, that's just the ones that apply to me) and a few allowances. We also get paid basic wages for the period finishing on Friday, but penalties and overtime are for the period finishing on Wednesday. And our standard work day is broken into normal hours, rostered overtime and leave acruual, so the hours used to calculate each type of pay are different. So it is really hard to figure out whether we are being paid correctly without a computer and complicated maths.
I've managed to get to the point that except for mistakes my calculations only differ due to minor rounding differences, and I can project future income for my budget fairly easily too. NGL pretty pleased with myself.
Well done. It must have been a lot of work to get that worked out.
I’ve been doing a very rudimentary budget every week or two to make sure I’m on top of everything and it’s so complicated without everything you mentioned and takes a lot of time!
I've been working on it for a couple of years and improving a bit at a time. Now that I'm in the habit of recording things like the utility bills and petrol it's becoming a lot more accurate, and I can make better forecasts for the future. It's also been very educational, and there are a lot of similarities between complicated excel formulas and the way the code for the bot is written, so it has probably helped with that too!
My psych always talks about "what do you need". And I've gotta be honest, today I've got no idea.
I feel a bit flat. Might try and do some small jobs around the house and see if that gets me feeling a bit more accomplished.
Still having sporadic internet problems, and went to look in comms box to see what I could find.
Comms box is in laundry next to fridge. I opened freezer door and looked in there.
This sums up my day so far, and is probably the reason I won't be getting a job in IT anytime soon.
don't beat yourself up, His Lordship is literally one of the biggest SEO experts in the country but if the internet shits out he runs into my office and dances madly in place crying and pointing to the Chrome Dinosaur.
(this is what happens when a software engineer marries a sysadmin)
Miss Meow just walked over the laptop and tried to update the bot. Apparently she wants everyone to see the number 87.
I have set the bot up to run at 5 minutes past midnight, fingers crossed this one actually works, I'm running out of options to try if it fails again. I've turned off all power management options in the wifi adaptors, and it now has the new adaptor so can connect directly to the router instead of via the phone as a hotspot. This whole thing is like launching a rocket, all the tests can go well and the main launch can still fail! Come on @[email protected] we believe in you!
I have noticed as my depression lifts more and more I stand straighter. Just little things like that are making me feel good about myself. 😊 Good feedback loop.
purged my comments, all quite useless
my contributions tend to be pointless
left my stupid prose, i suppose for posterity
from them I only gain shame and no money
sorry for bringing this place, and all of you down
i shouldnt openly display a virtual frown
just an attention seeker, selfish and crude
i want to be kind, but downvotes tell me i'm rude.
do not perceive this jerk,
demoted to witness, just lurk
some of my rhymes made you smile
but the rest are stupid and sad
just bad, and personally vile.
<3 I love seeing your comments even if I don't engage with them.
People will downvote no matter how innocuous the comments are. Someone downvoted my comment where I said today's going to be a slow day. Guess Sonic didn't like my comment. Oh well.
No! I can't believe you have haters. Fuck the haters! I love everything you post
Edit: I was speaking with someone yesterday and I literally brought you up as a regular poster I loved.
Walking around on cool winter nights
Beautiful city and pale gold lights
So many people minding their business
No animosity, just inner stresses
When out of the darkness a looming face
Approaches out of the weeknight race
They know my name, and my highschool
Panic, frack, who are they? You fool...
They come in fast, too fast to avoid
I gotta think fast, my memory is devoid
"Hey...you," I say "It's been too long!"
"I know right," is the reply "remember when..."
Ah shit, I think, no, I don't remember a thing
Applied fake smile and say "Yeah haha sure thing!"
And still their face doesn't ring a bell
I don't know who they are, circles of hell
"We ought to catch-up,down a pint, and reflect"
"Sounds like a plan, just hit me up" I deflect
Then off they speed, just as quick as they came
Do they suspect I still don't remember their name?
If you have many downvotes I can only assume they are recent wanderers from Reddit who are still primed for the fight and have not yet learned this is a safe space where its OK to be nice.
I personally enjoy your posts and consider you a great contributor in the community. It would make me sad if you just lurked.
We love you and all of your thoughts. What gave you the idea otherwise? Downvotes? Its a shame we can see how many ups and downs.
I'd rather not have the sinking feeling either and was getting a few last week, but they've stopped. This is all of our safe space, and we're here to support you.
I've been busy and not able to attend this thread as I normally would, and can I just say: Thank God you're here! I was actually worried about you! I'd noticed you deleted your posts before I even got a chance to read them and I thought, "oh shit, what's going on here? Are we losing an attendee? Are they succumbing to self doubt?" One person might downvote, and it doesn't matter. You know why? Because fuck 'em, that's why! It might be an occasional drunkard stabbing at the wrong bit of their screen.. or they might just be a gutless wonder who can't express themselves- unlike you.
Lucy the dog’s stitches are out and she was very brave,no signs of apprehension, just excitement to meet the other dogs in the waiting room even the ones bigger than her. If anyone has got tips on how to keep a Jack Russell calm and stop trying to run everywhere, let me know:)
Hahaha. Keeping a Jack Russell calm. My tip is you can't unless you give them small snacks every 10 seconds. They have batteries up their bums. Source. I have one.
My mum had a jrt that did his anterior cruciate ligament when he was kicked during a robbery. The only way we could keep him settled was to either give him a bone from the butcher that was almost as big as him or to be sedentary ourselves so he would be more inclined to sit with us.
A++ thread name, Thornbury Witch! Morning all. Conference starts today so I have to put on work clothes and interact with people. I really hope they’re alright at asking questions to keep a conversation going!
I pastuerized some mead last night for the first time to kill off the yeast so that i could add things for secondary flavour/aging without trigging further fermentation. The base mead is strawberry/raspberry and it is split into two 5L vessels. In one i have added some wine tannin and 0.5L of strawberry juice from berries we picked recently and in the other i have added 0.5kg of dried sour cherries. They both look amazing colour wise now and they smelt great. Will give them a taste later today before they go away for storage. The cherry one is so dark at the moment you cant even see a torch light through the liquid
This sounds awesome. Were you somehow able to pasteurise them in place (i.e. in the fermentation vessels) or did this involve transferring them to carboys or similiar for secondary?
I transferred to two 5L glass carboys so that i could leave the lees behind and then i sat them in an esky of water with a portable sous vide machine attached to the side :)
Since you've got an older kid I suppose your a good person to ask. How old were they when you took your first holiday?
I've heard holidays with young kids being described as less like Holidays and more like Away Games.
First overseas holiday at 5 months, we went to Japan. Second overseas holiday was Europe at 18 months.
Japan was incredible and so easy with a little one. Everyone was so friendly and helpful, plus it really helped that kid1 fell in love with sushi.
Start planning. Yeah, the flight can be hell, but that's only a few hours out of your holiday. The other part is the awesome holiday.
I took Mr Woof out for a nice walk at sky pretty. It was very cold, but the orange glow behind the silhouette of leafless tree branches was rather nice.
I went via the post box to "return to sender" some random letters from Commonwealth Bank for people who do not live here. Mr Woof was very concerned that the greyhound we saw out walking too was up to no good. He is very suspicious about the motives of other dogs.
Good morning Australia. Yesterday's sourdough turned into a rock on the outside but at least it's still soft on the inside. Spent half an hour painstakingly sawing off the crust. At least I have a cake for backup breakfast.
if anyone is looking for a social event/ board games, I run a blood on the clocktower games night every fortnight on a Wednesday at Melb central lion hotel from 6pm. Next is on 5th of July.
Teapot hunting time. I'm leaning towards the retro branded enamels atm, can put them on my little heater dish for hot tea on demand. (we don't need fancies, pretty much exclusively black tea drinkers)
There is a very cute tea shop in Sassafras that has many quirky tea pots. I wanted so many of them and I don’t even use teapots! Worth a visit is you are out that way.
tbh we'd probably go the more industrial end - quirkies don't tend to lean towards VOLUME which is what we're about. I'm lookin' at ones like this, there's the bushells/arnotts/billy variants
I was out in the field all day today talking almost non stop while training a new colleague, so walking around has kept me warm and since I've avoided peak hour both ways I now I have a pile of motivation I need to jump on before it expires tonight. Tomorrow I will be back to wanting to hibernate.
Luckily I have some really nice warm hand knit jumpers. A few years ago I found lots of wool at the op shop, in sufficient quantities to make jumpers. My Mum is a knitter so she was able to turn it all into clothing for me. I've been wearing those a lot this year.
oooo auspost wanna play funny buggers? I've got an ASD fixation and a tendency towards cuntishness. I guarantee those fuckers I'm a lot better at funny buggers than they are
(cunce decided to not only not even attempt a driveby for delivery, or even use a local LPO literally across the road, or even the parcel centre two blocks up but drop a small, letter-box stuffable parcel of cat fountain filters in a parcel locker in the next fucking suburb)
Just went past the Melbourne Recital Centre on the tram and saw that there was a huge amount of prams parked outside, and immediately I knew, the wiggles are performing there.
Unfortunately not atm. I just got to my bus (train line not running) currently stuck in traffic 😔 and I’m starving. Last week stuck in traffic took a little over an hour just to get to my stop (not replacement bus)
Me too, it has been pedal to the metal from 7am to now. But I've whipped up a quick dinner and will put in a few extra hours of work because Wed is my last session with Short Term Awesome Psych and I might not be very productive after that.
Once I get this burst done I'll be able to take it a bit easier rest of this week.
Excellent! Chin up and look after yourself. Remember to squeeze in “me time” or a treat yourself like idk ice cream, a movie whatever that makes you happy, even if briefly
Me too. I don’t know where the time has gone but I’ve managed to whittle the time down today without being able to relax and do my own thing and it’s already dark outside.
I think it’s time to enjoy the rest of the day/night now.
My new goal is to not spend enough time on Twitter to hit the ridiculous 600 tweet limit. Reddit and Twitter really have done me a solid and forced me to reduce my social media engagement.
Whoooo. Almost 12 hours straight of working. But then I remembered I had no hours for last Thursday because it was a non starter after an intense psych session. Guess I'll have to do a long day tomorrow as well so I can make up enough hours to cover this Wednesday in addition...
Ok I can do this. Everything i need to do has been written down. Shower, episode, sleep. Won't be heading to the office tomorrow, looking at that shitty weather. I've seen enough insane driving over the last 2 weeks.
Love it! I love how most of the music video is the record spinning. When I was a kid, in my room I'd put on a record and listen while I watched it spin around. It was mesmerising and calming.
I'm building my tolerance back up.. On account of my kids so far just not being ok with any type of heat... I'm slowly sneaking in an extra drop or so into their "plain" Bolognese sauce... slightly evil laugh
So after reading your comment about the font size, I found you can use thumb and fore finger to spread the screen of where you’re reading. Like instagram and looking at photos except you don’t have to hold it down. Idk who’s making the changes but I’m not a huge fan of it. But I’ll eventually get used to it
When I was growing up my parents always said "there's no such thing as a stupid question" or "you don't learn if you don't ask questions". So now I feel bad when I see questions being posted on reddit and I think "that's a stupid question. Im not even going to reply to that". Like I get that some people were given the unfortunate parents stick and weren't taught stuff but we have internet now guys. We can research. We can ask questions before we ask strangers.
Oooooh I hear you on this. Like hello there’s google. Try searching yourself and if you’re still confused, maybe ask in a DT instead of a whole melbourne post 😒
The stupidity tends not to be so much the actual question as it is the inability to take appropriate actions to find the answer. If you want to know something taking some steps to do at least basic research yourself is appropriate, then if you need to know more you are in a position to ask reasonable questions. A lot of people prefer to just ask someone else and expect them to put all the effort in, and there is rarely any point in actually answering them because if the answer is not simple and easy they just lose interest anyway.
Sometimes the stupidity is people not recognising questions there is no known answer to. I saw a lot of them at the start of Covid, people were asking things like exact details of how long the virus could live on surfaces or how far it could travel in air. Which is pretty stupid when you are talking about a virus that had only just been discovered. I suspect a lot of those type of people are the ones who went down conspiricy and anti-vax rabbitholes, just because those were the types of people who appeared to offer answers.
Yes, yes, yes. I was trying hard not to sound like a smart-arse. Personal opinion is different to seeking facts. Just pick up the phone and get a confirmation from a professional because on here we are all plumbers/gynaecologists/police officers/tax agents etc we can be anything we want to be.
If there's something you need to know that pertains to something like work, I don't think there's stupid questions. But when it's things that are easily Google-able (like whenever I'd see on r/writing "can I write x character" like yes... you can, can you write it well, now that is something we can't answer) or is something very insensitive (like asking trans binary and nonbinary people if they've had the surgery). But yeah, I cringe whenever I see things that, y'all could've Googled.
Have to take my dog to get her stitches out today, I hope she doesn’t get too agitated. She normally doesn’t mind the vet, even when they do unspeakable things to her rear end, but after having surgery she is not too keen on going back. When we went to get her bandage removed she vomited. Hopefully today is the last time for a while🤞
I felt that around date 4-6 with my guy. I think it was me starting to catch feelings & getting anxious about what we were/ where things were at. I prompted a chat about it, and that really helped.
If you feel okay doing so, maybe call it out and chat about it with bar guy?
This is totally natural, I'm a guy and had the same feelings after the first few dates with a new GF, I felt that it was going to be something good, but maybe held back a bit to see if my feelings weren't lying to me and that I could get hurt again.
Have been with Mrs_Owl for 23 years since I overcame those doubts and took a chance.
Nah, this is lemmy. Mastodon is the fediverse 'twitter' equivalent.
Edit: from Wikipedia: The fediverse (a portmanteau of "federation" and "universe") is an ensemble of federated (i.e. interconnected) servers that are used for web publishing (i.e. social networking, microblogging, blogging, or websites) and file hosting, which, while independently hosted, can communicate with each other.
Back to work after a week off (which became overshadowed by my ear infection). I’d checked my email on Friday and thought I’d dodged the anticipated “welcome back!” Email with a list of extra shit to do in addition to my existing workload. Nope…it’s there, just been sent at 7pm. Ugh.
Pain is all gone, thankfully, but my hearing is still muffled.
I have to wait a few weeks and have my ear re-checked as the eardrum may have been damaged when I experienced the worst pain (work wasn’t happy for me to leave early to have it checked at the time).
Yikes. Went to the shop and forgot about the whole hyperosmia things after a headcold which hit today. Walked past someone on the street and that perfume was way intense for at least 50m after walking past them.
On the plus side you do get nice nature / tree / plant smells. Would be nice to have that sort of upper respiratory stuff in spring. Would smell delicious.
Oh I didn't journal yet. Time marches on. I had a visitor today. I'm chalk and cheese to when I saw them last.
Cat plays, aa, job looking a bit. Nothing else. This is nice.
This movie is a much needed counter to prevailing attitudes that arose from "Me" 1960s
Men have feelings too.
Grief is a normal part of life and no, therapy doesn't cure everything nor is always appropriate . Sometimes lives are sad and absurd and that is ok.
Today was a rushed cooking today so went to the shops to pick up some green curry paste - tried the Marion's Kitchen brand for the first time (normally I am an Ayam brand girl) and it turned out well! I did add some kaffir lime leaves into the curry so that might have also helped
I’d like the $$$&, but then there’s the question of what to do with the snail. Do you keep it confined but close (to supervise), or move to the other side of the world & hope it can’t work out air/sea travel?
It takes a snail 35 hours to travel about 700 metres, I reckon I could out-run that slimy psycho and claim the cash. They only live for a few years, so I'll hang out on my own million dollar island* until it all blows over, then I'll return to normal society.
A seagoon Wordle post at this hour? Has jerboa finally shit itself and is showing early posts at a recent hour? I'm confused! Did you post 30 minutes ago or am I going mad?!
Nightclubs are usually themed in some way. Be it the style of music or the type of crowd that goes there. Like Revs is house music, drugs and dancing; My Aeon is trance music, drugs and dancing; Star bar is B/C grade footballers, the women who like them and drinking. For something nice with your wife I'd see if the Exford still has tango/flamenco dancing on Monday? night. You're both Asian yeah? There used to be Asian nights too, there probably still are. Dream on Queensberry St may still exist, but they ran all different sorts of nights, a lot of Drum n Bass from my experience, nice crowd, not my music.