If you feel this enough to come to the comments, there's a good chance you have undiagnosed ADHD (because you cope well enough, but "aren't living up to your potential"). An aspect of ADHD is rejection sensitivity dysphoria, which also applies to "failures" like in this meme. Getting medicated at age 29 has been life changing for me
The Japanese do aspire to perfection in everything, and treat even mundane tasks as a measure of their competence and worth, so this guy's reaction seems culturally appropriate.