Now that's some bad parenting. But you are going to need to do something if you don't eventually wanna live on the streets. Your mom isn't going to be there forever, and doing nothing for longer will make it more difficult.
And if it's her that's keeping you down and disfunctional, I can tell you from experience its 1000x better to live alone.
This sounds like getting a job thrown on your lap, unless you really hate it, go for it. You can always use it for some experience and go for something else later.
In case you’re out of the loop like me and need to look it up:
NEET = This is a term used in the field of education, the acronym stands for; Not in Education, Employment or Training but young people have started to use it as a term for bums/layabouts with no future.
I hope he lasts three months, because they always need more dispatchers. So many of them quit because of the horrible things they hear. Like people crying for help while they’re being killed.
I couldn’t do that shit. I don’t have the fortitude for it.
One wonders how we have a functioning dispatch system. Folks have the most stressful phone conversations you could imagine nonstop for their entire workday. Mistakes are documented publically and may quite literally cost lives. It is extremely likely that you will develop trauma, so much so that counseling is free and integrated into the job. The rules are rigid, and you are subject to initial and ongoing randomized drug tests.
Where in the world are you able to have your mom "sign you up" to be a dispatcher?! To work for our dispatch, you have to apply, have a rigorous background check and a panel-type interview. And then they last less than 3 months because they make all their dispatchers switch from day to night shift and vice versa every two weeks.
They were probably "promised" the job. Anon will will still need to apply and the state will perform the minimum amount of interviews (they're legally obligated to) only to miraculously land on a candidate with no experience. Good old fashioned nepotism.
Most likely this is fiction of a deranged person. Considering every possible situation they might get a job and how to avoid it.
In my city the dispatch handles police/fire/EMS. They're civilians and it's a pretty depressing job. The pay isn't that good but it is with the city so the benefits are great, lots of time off and top-notch insurance.
Let's hope anon won't get a major disaster at his watch. I've heard many stories about how 911 hotline workers get scarred by this job. You get people literally dying or endangered on the phone and can't do nothing but forwarding their request to another service.
And that won't change as a dispatcher. Just send the State Euthanasia Force, erm. I mean Police for every other call (don't even pick up the other half), and you should be good.
You are aware that emergency services dispatch is one of the jobs with the highest suicide rates because they're basically spending all day/night listening to people in extreme duress, often without the ability to provide life-saving aid in time, and usually without adequate psychological support and access to therapy?