Or you can make fun of fat people and don't care. It's the one thing you can change about your appearance and not doing so is a sign of irresponsible neglect of your own body that shouldn't be encouraged.
It's like making fun of a weird fashion choice or a silly haircut. It's not like making fun of someones hight or dick size or whatever.
I'm saying that as someone who was overweight most of his adult life.
Your oversimplifying. I agree I don't think being overweight should be necessarily seen as a good thing, but that's still someone's personal business. They may be trying to loose weight. They may have a medical condition or an addiction to food. They may just not have access to good, healthy food, or are uneducated about how to eat healthy in the first place. Making fun of them is useless at best and hurtful at worst, because chances are, they know they're overweight. They don't need you to point that out to them.
Even if someone chooses to be overweight, making fun of them for it can still hurt others. By all means, say that it's unhealthy and that it shouldn't be normalized but don't take it out on individuals, especially if you don't know their situation.
Exactly. If she was just about not hating fat people, I'd be on board. But she seems to be all about normalizing being fat, and that is not okay at all.
Fat isn't a good look. For anyone. Chubby chasers are fucked in the head. I'm all for weird preferences, but there are limits. And a preference for people that are completely unhealthy is past the limit for sure.
I have a family member who is constantly posting on social media about their weight and appearance, and has been doing so for easily a good 10+ years at this point. I am sympathetic to their struggle, and I feel bad that it affects their self esteem and whatnot, but on the other hand, if they had been putting in enough effort to lose even just 1 pound per month over the decade+ this has been happening, then they would have been able to stop posting about it by now. They are one of the most active social media users I know, so I know that they have plenty of time that they could divert towards being more active, they just simply choose not to. I can only feel so bad about that after so long.
It's more like making fun of your ignorance than your haircut. Like, hypothetically, you could fix your ignorance. But in practice, you can't. It's beyond you to even understand yourself.
Has anyone seen an article with any evidence yet? So far it's been 3 dancer that had been previously fired suing with only she-said/she-said as evidence. I guess we'll find out in discovery but if that's it then this doesn't seem like a winning case.
And sometimes those can be credible if they are unconnected, span over time, and are along the same behaviour complaints. I don’t know enough about these dancers to know if that’s the case though.