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Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

pronouns: cele/celes

Plural. Trans{gender and species}.

We don't identify as human, thank you!

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biodegradable
  • Yes, however, it's the other chemicals they mix it with that make it not biodegradable. Thankfully there are some companies not using those chemicals now which is lovely.

    Also, for those who are allergic to latex, unfortunatley the only option is polyurethene which is plastic, and as such not at all biodegradable.

  • Kinks & Fetishes Are Not The Same by Hannah Witton
  • This is a huge bugbear of ours in that many think that kink and a fetish are the same thing, they aren't.

    This isn't to say that some things are always a kink and some things are always a fetish, even individually it can be a sliding scale or a spectrum on a personal level and things can move around.

    Also, anything can be a kink or a fetish, even things thought of as normative are usually within that mold, such as most people literally having a genital fetish i.e. they require genitals involved to get off, or a kissing kink/fetish.

  • The FRIES Model of Consent & BDSM by Evie Lupine
  • Personally we very much agree with the FRIES model, though we have problems with the E (Enthusiastic) part because enthusiasm might be too much for some people or against their personality.

    We think too many within kink don't think that consent is revocable at any time and this is a major problem to us, since it should always be to avoid harm.

    The others we very much agree with, even though some try too hard to circumvent the Freely Given aspect, which we also do not agree with, it is not at all good to push someone's boundaries without having talked to them outside of any scenes or headspaces.

    Do not ever go beyond someone's boundaries or try to force them into it, such things are completely morally and ethically horrifying.

  • PPT Surgeons in UK?

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/15864432

    > Hello, we were wondering if there were any Peritoneal Pull Through Vaginoplasty surgeons in the UK, or if not or they're not good where would y'all recommend going? > > Not currently seeing the GIC because of long waiting lists, so don't know if that's a concern. We are on hormones though. > > Also, haven't had any other surgeries yet, should we do before consulting them? > > Thanks!

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    PPT Surgeons in UK?

    Hello, we were wondering if there were any Peritoneal Pull Through Vaginoplasty surgeons in the UK, or if not or they're not good where would y'all recommend going?

    Not currently seeing the GIC because of long waiting lists, so don't know if that's a concern. We are on hormones though.

    Also, haven't had any other surgeries yet, should we do before consulting them?

    Thanks!

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    Blahaj eating posts in our new community

    We are trying to create posts in our new community [email protected] and for some reason they aren't appearing or if they are we can't see them from this account.

    Is this a blahaj problem (possibly due to the upgrades) or are new communities not allowed to have posts in them until they've been vetted or some such or is it some other problem we don't yet understand?

    Edit: Figured it out, we had "Show NSFW content" off in our settings even though those posts are not marked NSFW themselves it must inherent the 'NSFW'ness from the community, strange but makes sense.

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    Transgender @lemmy.blahaj.zone Of the Air (cele/celes) @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Possible physical transition problems based on what we are taking, can y'all help?

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/15724322

    > So because getting to see the GIC is seemingly impossible, we are currently being prescribed three things by gender G.P (who have become decreasingly helpful over time): > > - Finasteride (started 2-ish years ago) > - Estrogen patches (started 2-ish years ago) > - Progesterone (started a year in) > > Current prescription states: > > - Finasteride - 5mg taken in the morning, once daily > - Estrogen patches - 150mcg released over 24 hours, changed twice weekly. > - Progesterone suppository - 200mg taken once daily in the evening > > We were watching a video debunking sci-show's video about HRT and it said that finasteride is a not an AA and effectively only stops hair loss (which we don't think we had before starting). > > We have some problems as our chest seems to have either stopped developing or ran into problems and seems to have developed tubular breasts syndrome (they're an okay size but a bit triangular and don't look quite 'right' to us) but we aren't sure if this is because we did something wrong or not? > > So our questions are: > > - Should we stop our current regimen of finasteride? > - Did we start taking progesterone too early? > - Will our chest continue to grow and work its way out of this shape/problem?

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    Possible physical transition problems based on what we are taking, can y'all help?

    So because getting to see the GIC is seemingly impossible, we are currently being prescribed three things by gender G.P (who have become decreasingly helpful over time):

    • Finasteride (started 2-ish years ago)
    • Estrogen patches (started 2-ish years ago)
    • Progesterone (started a year in)

    Current prescription states:

    • Finasteride - 5mg taken in the morning, once daily
    • Estrogen patches - 150mcg released over 24 hours, changed twice weekly.
    • Progesterone suppository - 200mg taken once daily in the evening

    We were watching a video debunking sci-show's video about HRT and it said that finasteride is a not an AA and effectively only stops hair loss (which we don't think we had before starting).

    We have some problems as our chest seems to have either stopped developing or ran into problems and seems to have developed tubular breasts syndrome (they're an okay size but a bit triangular and don't look quite 'right' to us) but we aren't sure if this is because we did something wrong or not?

    So our questions are:

    • Should we stop our current regimen of finasteride?
    • Did we start taking progesterone too early?
    • Will our chest continue to grow and work its way out of this shape/problem?
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    What happens if we put patches in the fridge if they say not to?

    cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/15424151

    > So today we finally got around to reading the instructions for some of our patches (Estradot) and realised they say not to put them in the fridge (or freezer but we wouldn't put patches in the freezer anyway). We took them out but they have been in there for months. > > Are they ruined or less effective? > > We started doing it because our other patches (Evorel) denatured once a while ago, and wanted to avoid the same fate with these ones since it's been a hot summer and have nowhere really cool to store them since we are on the top floor of a building and thus it gets very hot up here, even in our drawers. > > So we are wondering what exactly is the problem with them being in the fridge and are they ineffective now or will they be okay now that they're in the a drawer and hopefully stay cool for the rest of the month? > > We have left our other patches (Evorel) in the fridge as they don't say not to.

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    What happens if we put patches in the fridge if they say not to?

    So today we finally got around to reading the instructions for some of our patches (Estradot) and realised they say not to put them in the fridge (or freezer but we wouldn't put patches in the freezer anyway). We took them out but they have been in there for months.

    Are they ruined or less effective?

    We started doing it because our other patches (Evorel) denatured once a while ago, and wanted to avoid the same fate with these ones since it's been a hot summer and have nowhere really cool to store them since we are on the top floor of a building and thus it gets very hot up here, even in our drawers.

    So we are wondering what exactly is the problem with them being in the fridge and are they ineffective now or will they be okay now that they're in the a drawer and hopefully stay cool for the rest of the month?

    We have left our other patches (Evorel) in the fridge as they don't say not to.

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    Looking for specific kinds of skirts (or dresses) in the uk

    Hi there, we are interested in specific types of skirts (or dresses), namely those that go up at the front and down at the back (especially if there's a significant difference i.e. shorter at the front and longer at the back so the back going down is obvious) and was wondering if any of y'all knew their name or where to get them.

    We would especially love it if they could have multiple layers but a single layer would be okay if that's not possible.

    Oh and a request, if possible, since we don't use amazon since they do not treat their workers well we would prefer no links to them, thank you!

    Extra bonus points if any of them have pockets, but that's a big ask, we know.

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