Problem: I've never cared about my appearance before and have no idea what I like or a starting point for trying stuff
Listening to others fashion advice gives me that starting point to begin exploring! Sorry I know you don't mean that in a dismissive way, I just wanted to chime in that fashion advice is still worth discussing, it's just not something to hold yourself to =D
Our post was more in the spirit of ignoring the non-consensual barrage of 'advice', shame and other such things both the fashion industry and other people lay on people all the time.