Reddit is a soulless corporation that only wants to make money. Like a vampire, but money instead of blood. But if you drove a stake through the heart of reddit's CEO and board members, you'd go to jail for some reason. Unless the jury was super cool and nullified.

Yes. Unfortunately, if you try to slug a nazi a bunch of pearl clutchers will pop up saying violence is never ever ever acceptable oh dear we need to compete in the marketplace of IDEAS and follow the LAW we might not like that the law says the [outgroup] are to be forcibly relocated but it is what it is oh dear.

I don't expect everyone to be on the front line throwing a molotov, but I would like if more people wouldn't actively support the oppressors.

It's like some eternal September shit. Of course a private for profit entity like discord is going to eventually turn to shit*. It's like the scorpion and the frog fable**. People should know that. But there are just so many people who this is their first time ever encountering these ideas.

And some people just don't care about things. I had that galaxy brain realization a couple months ago. Imagine if everyone cared just a little more. So many problems would just go away.

*Valve arguably being an exception so far, but that could change on a whim

** https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scorpion_and_the_Frog

Right wing does not argue in good faith. I'm reminded of that Sartre quote

Never believe that anti-Semites are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The anti-Semites have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.

I often feel like we as a society let "everyone is entitled to their opinion" go too far. Like when it's "I like vanilla and you like chocolate" that's fine. Let people enjoy their flavor of choice. But when it's like "I don't think those foreign people should live" that's just the same kind of thing at all.

And closely related, when someone's like "I just don't believe in vaccines" we shouldn't just let that be.

I believe French does this as well. To answer in the affirmative to a negative question, you use "si" instead of "oui"

"Si" is also the word for "if", which has probably confused people.

(top search hit, not sure if good, but on a quick glance it looks correct https://www.commeunefrancaise.com/blog/si-in-french )

The underlying cause is they are more emotional driven than the baseline human, I think. We're all emotional, but I feel like some people really let the truthiness gutfeel of emotions rule the day and facts are just not that important to them.

Pick like any of those and you see they had a choice between feelings that make them feel smart or part of an in-group, or facts that made the world clash with their beliefs. And because they're kind of fools and cowards, they go with the feel-good most of the time.

I know a gay couple that are pretty right leaning, but they learned a long time ago that their own people don’t accept different opinions so they just play pretend whenever they go out into the LGBT spaces and they are their normal Republican selves at home or with their right leaning buddies.

It is extremely misleading to characterize this as "different opinions". The republican party is extremely hostile to queer people. We're not talking about like "i like pop-punk and you like 90s-r&b".

Also if people really are lying about their beliefs so hard, that's fucked up. Most of us learn that lying is bad in early childhood.

I’m not even conservative and I learned to shut up and play pretend for the short time I went to college because questioning the professor or showing you don’t go a long with the narrative is a great way to get targeted by the teachers and other students.

I feel like there's a lot of detail missing here. Yeah, if you were saying like "I just don't think gay stuff is natural" other people might have said mean things to you, but that would've been because you had a shitty opinion. Most right wing views are absolute dog shit, so it's not surprising people would target them. You wouldn't be persecuted for "going against the narrative", you'd be derided for having bad ideas.

For the record very few people on the right actually believe women shouldn’t have the right to vote. Most of them say it as a joke because they know how much it rubs certain people the wrong way. It’s kinda like the guys that complain (jokingly) to their wives that they need to get back in the kitchen and make them a sandwich. Yeah some of them actually mean it and fuck those people, but the grand majority do not view women that way at all.

"I was just joking" is a common top-of-the-funnel for horrors. Explain why it's funny to make jokes like "women belong in the kitchen" or "well we all know black people are [negative stereotype of your choice]".

I've had several women tell me about how they'd have a date or two with a guy who'd said he was "liberal" or "moderate", but it quickly became apparent he had horrible views about the world.

To your larger point, there may be people who pretend to be left-wing but secretly hold shitty beliefs, but those people are bad people.

And it sounds like you just want to feel persecuted by people for "going against the narrative" and don't want to accept that right wing beliefs are, i repeat, dog shit, and make for a worse world.

I mean, there are reasons why right wing people don't admit it. "I don't think women should vote" isn't going to make a lot of friends with women, for example. I don't "lock myself" into avoiding Republicans, but their beliefs are often reprehensible so we don't get along.

But also I live in NYC and I'm sure there are trump supporters, but most people recognize him as a scumbag and threat.

Is this the thing where people act like their little suburb in ~Oklahoma (population, 10k) is "the real world" but a major city like NYC (population, 8 million) is some sort of fake world?

Groundhog's day if the day is pretty normal. Not like a day where I have the flu or AWS is down. There's a lot of books to read, movies to watch, one night stands to have.

Also I think my friends would believe me that groundhog day was happening. Might be able to get a slightly better situation than the movie.

People shouldn't put up with pollution. If the courts won't block pollution, there are other ways.

Windows sure is bad, though I haven't seen an actual blue-screen in years. That's some foul luck.

Oh yeah I got a cheap wireless mouse and keyboard for it, worked fine. One or two crashes, but mostly just fine.

I think the rich assholes are banking on protests never ascending beyond chants and the occasional march. Maybe some blocked traffic.

When the right wing leaders are dragged out of their mansions at night and hanged from the nearest tree, and all the would be witnesses say they didn't see anything, then we'd be getting somewhere.

Laws only matter if they are enforced.

The right wing doesn't care about law or consistency. They care about in-groups to protect and out groups to bind.

If "how do treat strangers" is a viable metric for assessing if someone is a good person or not, the the right wing are not good people.

I think at least New York now requires jobs to post a range. I haven't even seen bullshit like "$50k - $500k" - maybe the law was written strongly enough that they can't loophole it that way.

Need more honey pots.

Put up ads saying there's a measles party at a time and place. Anyone who shows up doesn't leave and their kids are vaccinated.

Been doing the job search and it's frustrating how bad most of the job postings are. There's so much filler nonsense.

I pretty much just want to know like

• tech stack
• team size
• big picture what the company does
• if they're assholes about in-office mandates
• salary range

Some postings are like "must know Java, go, JavaScript, Ruby, Python, or rust" and I'm like do you use all of those?

I just feel like there's a lot of "You hate every piece of capitalism, but you won't connect the dots to see they're all coming from the same source." It won't be enough to restore social security payments if we still have billionaires just walking around, or we keep this broken two-party system that also empowers less populated areas. Just to name two issues off the top of my head.

We need larger, structural, changes.

But I guess everything starts somewhere.