How are your metamor relationships?
How are your metamor relationships?
Currently, I'm polite to friendly with all of them. No outstanding conflicts. It's sometimes literal kitchen table poly with one, and the others I only see at like parties and such.
Some years ago I had two partners that absolutely did not get along with each other, and that was rough. Recently I was able to do a dinner with 3 partners and everyone had a good time.
I try not to make a big deal about folks meeting. I try to model after meeting your friend's friends.
I start with the thought that my metamors, as a subset of all people, have already been vetted by people that I love and care about. Starting with that assumption tends to make things go easier. At least that's been my experience.
I think I'm somewhat in the same boat. I've got one metamor that I talk to and is even in my Pathfinder game with my partners and seems to have taken an interest in me.
The others I get along with, but we don't talk too often.