I do feel bad for the civilians killed on October 7th. At the same time, my brain literally learned to skip one/two paragraphs every time I read an article on Israel-Palestine since it's always the same "oN oCtObEr 7th..." stuff. At this point it looks like they're trying to shove it and program it into my brain than to inform me of anything. It comes off as brainwashing at this point. No one writes a paragraph about the flour massacre or the invasion of Al-Shifa, or the countless strikes on refugee camps in every single article on Israel-Palestine.
Any Humanist will naturally conclude that the greater pain is the most important one to stop, so even if you accept the wildest numbers of dead Israelis in the 7th of October, Palestinian pain is now at least 20x worse.
Racists, on the other hand, look at the etnicity of those in pain to determine which is the most important.
This kind of Israeli "we're the real victims here" Propaganda is aimed at racists that see Israelis as "people like us" and Palestinians as "people not like us" since anybody who is not a racist won't be sayed by an argument that boils down to "a guy punched me in the face so it's entirelly fair that I went to his home, killed the whole familiy - including children - after which I killed all his neighbours and am going to go to another town to kill the rest of the family".
That reminds me there's quite a few protests happening in Israel over the response. Bibi is basically their Trump, albeit a bit further down the power grab, there are certainly folks who didn't vote for him and are trying to do something about it.