Gayness [Rule]
Saying "Being gay isn't your choice [...]" deviates from the typical phrases and gives it away to early. I would recommend: "You can't chose to be gay, I do. You're gay now." Still a great image.
Edit: grammar
*you're :P
No, you get to be in possession of a gay.
only if you don't understand the history of the phrase "being gay is a choice"
laughs in closeted transbian