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The Names of Thousands of Neo-Nazi Music Fans Just Got Leaked
  • This is actually a philosophical problem. I think it's the parable of pacifism, if I remember right? Basically, the advocacy for total pacifism and acceptance of all groups doesn't work if one group is specifically advocating for the death of the others because then there's a net loss.

    So yes. No nazis. Period.

  • People Who Don't Wear Deodorant or Seemingly Bathe Regularly, Why?
  • I didn't use to either shower or bathe but it was a mental health issue: I went though both depression, which didn't help, and I didnt have good showering habits due to being kinda aquaphobic. If water hit my face at all I would think I'd die (pretty dumb I know). Nowadays I bathe pretty much daily. Having a detachable showerhead helps a lot so I don't have to deal with water on my face.

  • Love Languages: Infograph
  • It's being talked about, but so far it's not completely debunked, and it's a good starting point in discussions about partnerships anyways. People don't clearly fit just one of the categories, of course, but to say it's completely debunked is also wrong.

  • Love Languages: Infograph

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    Be yourself and be true to who you are. Don't let neurotypical conditioning define your identity.
  • From another autistic person, it really varies from person to person. I despise staring intensely at strangers, but when it comes to my partner, I adore it. It probably has to do more with the level of trust than inherently not being able to look at someone in the eyes, but it might just be a me thing.

  • Be yourself and be true to who you are. Don't let neurotypical conditioning define your identity.
  • Dude, most of the comments are trying to be supportive of this guy. I'm pretty sure we've all felt broken when we were diagnosed. I thought I was unlovable and would never have friendships or a partner, and eight years later I just celebrated my five year anniversary. Shit gets better, but not if you stay on the cycle of thinking you're just broken and it will always stay like that. Whether you want to believe that or not, that's your prerogative.

  • Be yourself and be true to who you are. Don't let neurotypical conditioning define your identity.
  • Personally I find this form of thinking far more dangerous: I come from a country in which being "mentally disabled" would literally mean me being unable to function in polite society, and being a "retard" is something pretty common, even with adults. The fact I was undiagnosed autistic until I left saved me. Sure you don't function like everyone else, and yeah, it's hard - trust me -, but to say you're broken is basically undermining everyone else that has the same condition as you.

  • EU states can ban religious symbols in public workplaces
  • I guess it's cus everyone has a different standard of what pollution is for them. For me, the sound of windchimes calm me, I find industrial air vents relaxing, and church bells oddly peaceful, but can't stand someone even driving near me, dogs barking, babies crying, or fluorecent lights flickering. But you know, people need to drive, dogs and babies need to talk, and the world goes on.

  • The golden years
  • I'm in college RN, taking three classes, and literally just last week i was working so much to keep up with all the classes homework I started from 9am to 10pm with no breaks (online) with only the 5 min eating break every so often. If it was a 9-5 I would have been done and have time to spare for other crap. Fuck this idolizing the past "9-5 is evil" bullshit.

  • Couples, what secret language do you use to tell each other details that the company you're in doesn't understand or notice?
  • Might just be cus we're both neurodivergent, but we have a lot of non verbal cues, though he's nowhere near as showy as I am.

    Whenever I end up overstimmed and go non-verbal, I tug at his shirt gently, or paw at him. From then it's simple ASL. For him, he genuinely just has simple phrasing or wordings that are kind of "key words" between us. The both of us are high functioning in our 20s, this is just kind of how it ended up and we're both super not subtle about it. It's great.

    Edit: we literally do pigeon noises at each other at random. One of us says coo and the other goes roo. It's literally just a "thing" between us and it started because of us watching pigeons together and it stuck.

  • Shamelessly stealing this off Twitter.

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    I know Sleep doesn't really count, I still screamed when I saw him

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    What does the fear of being judged by others hold you back from doing that you would otherwise do?
  • Bone gnawing for me. And I genuinely mean that, I find gnawing on a piece of bone insanely calming for me, but it makes literally everyone I talk to insanely uncomfortable. I love gnawing on bbq ribs, chicken wing bones, pork chop bones, T bones. I love bone marrow and trying to dig for it. Family says it's bad etiquette, though my partner doesn't mind.

  • What are some YouTube channels which follow pre-monetisation ethos?
  • Chuggaconroy and TRG have pretty much kept up their quality over 20 years at this point, specially Chuggaconroy. He specializes in Nintendo games, and he's known for doing borderline encyclopedic let's plays, such as 100% Xenoblade chronicles. TRG meanwhile is just three guys hanging out and having fun. Just a fair warning, Chugga in particular has very high energy. Not obnoxious, like Mr.Beast or other high content YouTubers, but he's known for having extremely high energy moments. His newer content is much more mellow.

  • Art by NovaNeonDream, on Tumblr

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    Art by Xiangkei, on Twitter

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    "4Ever" by A Softer World

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    Everyone Deserves Love

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    My boyfriend made this literally minutes after watching the ML Movie

    We have mixed feelings

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    Discussion Post: The 5 Love Languages

    Ever since 1992, the idea of the 5 love languages has spread all over our culture. Published by marriage counselor Gary Chapman in his book "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts", Chapman proposed there were 5 main ways in which humans expressed their love to each other:

    1: Physical Affection. Any form of physical touch, even ones with no sexual undertones. Things like hand holding, nuzzling, hugs, and other forms of contact appear here.

    2: Acts of service: Generally seen as doing chores or undergoing difficult tasks for your partner. These could be seen as simple things that ease stress, such as dividing housework.

    3: Gifts: Seen as both giving and receiving gifts, people trend towards showing affection by giving items to the person they care about. To note, the price of the item does not matter more than the sentiment behind it.

    4: Words of Affirmation: Seen as any positive meaning word. While usual phrases like "I love you" land here, it's considered any form of communication that reaffirms love to the person's partner.

    5: Quality Time: While simple, people prefer spending time with this person simply engaged in activities with the other. Of note, these are to be done as uninterrupted and as engaged as possible. Examples can range from having a conversation alone, to playing games or other activities.

    While the veracity of the 5 love languages has been questioned over time (namely that people don't fall neatly into 5 categories and there's much overlap), it has aided people in understanding how to relate to their partners better.

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    As such, I'd love to know what you think of the 5 love languages, whether you believe it works or not, and whether you have any interesting stories regarding this concept! As always, have a wonderful day, and remember you are loved.

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    "Useless" by XKCD

    This comic is also known as "The Love Equation", and might be one of the most famous XKCD comics.

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    "Together" by XKCD

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    Insecurities

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    Sometimes you just need a happy cookie

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    A Shiny Human, by Dorkly

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    Favorite game in the series?

    Just wanna ask people that grew up with Spyro, what is their favorite game! I ended up with Spyro 2, and I think I've 100% it three times over.

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    Comfort Frog

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    Little Acts of Love: A Discussion Post

    For anyone that might be passing by, there's a discussion post! What are some little acts of love that mean a lot to you? A lot of life isn't grand gestures, it's every day things.

    For me, one of those things is sitting on the porch, listening to the wind chime at my house, and talking to either my family, or my partner, much and nothing at the same time.

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    "Mom", by A Softer World

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    "Necropolis", by A Softer World

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    For anyone having trouble finding the new episodes!

    While the legality of this site is questionable, its the only way right now that you can watch the entirety of season 5, and in the original french cut, until Disney+ updates. Enjoy!

    https://miraculous.to/en/

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