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Insurance commercials should be forced to display a total...
  • Exactly. They want to bring in exponentially more premiums than what they spend on advertising, and the new premiums are what provides the cash to pay other policy claims. It's really kind of an accepted form of Ponzi scheme. They are gambling that they will find enough people who will never need to make a claim in order to afford the few that do.

  • Is it a red flag for your partner to be jealous of your kid?
  • She may have self esteem issues. She could be codependent.

    My stepmother did these sorts of things in the beginning, but she was still in her twenties at that time. I didn't understand then (being just a kid ofc) but I've forgiven her now. And to her credit she's mellowed quite a bit as well. But this peace was many many years in the making. I think you both should seek couple's therapy to raise and discuss both of your issues in a safe loving space, and it may become clear during those sessions that she needs to also have individual therapy.

    If she balks at couple's therapy, then THAT is a red flag.... edit: no this is not even true. It could scare her to death. But reassure her that you want to work through these things so that you can strengthen your bond and learn to better communicate with each other.

  • Alarm clocks would be more effective if the sound was someone puking or gagging.
  • We should compile a playlist.

    • jackhammer
    • air raid siren*
    • trumpet reveille
    • taiko drumming
    • "eagle" (i.e. hawk) cry
    • monkeys screeching
    • Woody fuckin Woodpecker laugh
    • applause
    • theme from Rawhide

    *maybe don't use this one in tornado country. Don't desensitize oneself to actual emergency warning tones.

  • What was around or ended more recently than people think?
  • My 2006 RX factory radio unit had cassette and cd decks. Sometime around 2012, I remember feeling like I had unlocked a secret backdoor because an audiobook that I wanted from the library had a crazy long waitlist for the cd edition. I hadnt used cassettes in decades, but somehow I had the idea to check to see if they offered that audiobook on cassette. They did! And it was available to check out immediately!

    I replaced the radio in that car shortly after that because I needed a bluetooth connection and handsfree capability.

  • In the spirit of Halloween season, name a fictional killer that you could easily beat in a fight?
  • Do we have a head's up that this killer is coming for us? Or do we have to figure out what/who it is and what their weaknesses are in real time?

    Head's up: vampires. I always have a UV light on me, more for going thrifting than protection against Satan's undead.

    No head's up: Christine (the evil car). A coupla wheel chocks should sort that out.

  • What do you secretly judge people for?
  • My pet peeve about these gutters is 4 way intersections where the city planner put stop signs for the direction that doesn't have to cross the gutters, and makes the gutter-crossing direction the primary right of way. We have to essentially come to a slow roll to not bottom out, just give us the stop signs as a heads up that we're approaching a hazard that eats undercarriages.

  • Ghent Masquerade

    ghentnorfolk.org MASQUERADE IN GHENT - Ghent Business Association

    Masquerade in ghent Are you ready for a Ghouling Good Time?! Get ready for Ghent’s largest Halloween street party and costume contest... Masquerade in Ghent! Date: Friday, October 25, 2024 Time: 6:00-10:00pm Location: In the heart of Ghent on Colley Avenue between Shirley Avenue and Brandon Avenue c...

    MASQUERADE IN GHENT - Ghent Business Association

    DETAILS:

    • Friday, October 25, 2024, 6:00-10:00pm
    • Colley Avenue between Shirley Avenue and Brandon Avenue (essentially in front of the Naro)

    Masquerade in Ghent is free and open to the public. Ample parking can be found along the streets and parking lots.

    • Pre-Judging for Costume Contest: 6:00pm
    • Parade: 6:30pm

    After the parade, get ready for a monster mash with live music. Plus, there will be activities for kids, refreshments and adult beverages.

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    ZooBoo (21+ edition)

    DETAILS

    • October 25 @ 5:00 pm – 8:00 pm EDT
    • Virginia Zoo
    • 3500 Granby St, Norfolk, VA 23504

    Note: "For the wellbeing of our animals, all trails and the Goat Yard will be closed during the event."

    OP's thoughts: so what the hell is the point of going to the zoo when you can't walk around and see the animals? Well it looks like they will have other activities available to enjoy {laser tag, escape room, tarot readings, etc}, and TBF it will be close to dark when the event starts, so the animals really do need to come in to bed down for the night. The World of Reptiles will be open, and the train will be running. If you are a fan of the zoo grounds, then you'll enjoy this event. If not, then see my other post for Oct 25 events.

    ZooBoo Kid-Friendly dates are Oct 19 and Oct 20

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    Peekaboo!

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    Drone cam of new HRBT tunnel!

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    Good morning, sunshine

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    What is your favorite memory from spooky season?

    Mine would be the time my dad rigged a harness and "hung" himself from the carport beam, dressed to look like a stuffed Halloween decoration. He would grab at the bigger kids and parents when they came up to the door for candy. Scared the living bejeezus out of them.

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    Crochet @lemmy.ca KittenBiscuits @lemm.ee

    I wonder if they dyed it this color or found sock yarn in hi-viz yellow?

    Husband sent me this pic that he found on the site formerly known as Twitter. I'm impressed that they either found sock yarn/#10 thread in dayglo yellow, or that they used basic cotton thread and found dayglo yellow fabric dye.

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    Whoopsiedoodle!

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    ...The semi was headed west when its raised bed slammed into the overhead sign near mile marker 200 as it approached the I-64/I-295 split.

    Virginia State Police said the crash happened shortly after 9:30 a.m.

    "The cab continued on and then stopped, obviously, because it had separated from the bed of the tractor-trailer," Matt Demlein, a spokesperson for Virginia State Police, said. "We're still investigating as to what led up to it actually hitting the sign. It was empty at the time."

    Troopers do not know why the bed was raised or how long it was up before the crash. But officials said the truck had stopped at a weigh station about a mile earlier, which is equipped with cameras...

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    Draw a sunrise (in a setting of your choosing)

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    Combine 2 or more animals to make a new one

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    Draw summer

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    How do I know when it's time to call the "honey wagon"?

    This might fit better in the DIY group but here goes.

    How do I know when it's time to have the septic system pumped out?

    We had a new one installed 3 years ago. It was an upgrade in size. I'm not sure the capacity. It was negotiated to be done as part of our purchase contract, and the old owners didn't give us a copy of their contract with the installer. Just the inspector's report that plans were adequate for the number of bathrooms we have.

    There are only 2 of us. We don't put that much water into the system. But we've been having a LOT of rain. Over 5" in the last week and a half, and over 9" since Jul 1. Our elevation is between 1 and 4 ft (not a typo), so the water table is very close to the surface here.

    I'm getting periods of methane smell in the house off & on for about a month now. I've run water to make sure all the traps aren't empty. It's possible it could be coming from the vent stack for the washing machine, but it's not all the time.

    So with not a lot of use put into the system, is 3 years too early to have it pumped out? How can we tell?

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    What apps do you use to outsmart yourself?

    I think I'm learning about myself that no single solution will be my miracle solution. I try things and they work for a bit, then it just wears off.

    Well I'm in that place where I'm fed up and looking to try something new.

    What apps or non-digital tools do you use to keep yourself on track?

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    Old matchbooks I found at my grandmother's house

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    Mahala Mullins: Catchable, but not fetchable

    northeasttennessee.org Moonshiner Mahala Mullins - Northeast Tennessee

    Imagine a moonshiner so notorious, so untouchable, that even the law couldn't haul her in. Picture a whiskey queen who ruled from a....

    Moonshiner Mahala Mullins - Northeast Tennessee

    Imagine a moonshiner so notorious, so untouchable, that even the law couldn’t haul her in. Picture a whiskey queen who ruled from a rugged fortress in rural Tennessee, and that’s where history buffs will learn of the legendary Mahala Mullins.

    Catch-able, But Not Fetch-able Mahala Mullins wasn’t your average moonshiner. In fact, through the mid-1800s she was one of the most notorious bootleggers and sellers of illicit whiskey in Tennessee. It wasn’t that the government didn’t know about her. They did. It’s just that, whenever they came to arrest her, they couldn’t quite get her out of the house and down the rugged Appalachian Mountains.

    Records report that she had a dozen warrants for her arrest, and numerous treks by officers were made through the 16 miles of remote Hancock County backwoods to her cabin. So even if the revenue agents made it all the way up to her house, they’d never be able to lug her back down. Because of this, lawmen would say she’s “Catch-able, but not Fetch-able” due to her tipping the scales at more than 600 pounds. Mullins would even taunt them by saying, “Take me if you can.”

    !Mahala Mullins sitting in her bed

    Working from Home Sometime after giving birth to her 19th child, Mahala was infected with elephantiasis, which permanently enlarged her. Eventually, she grew too large to move from bed. And from her bedside, she’d pour and sell whiskey in large quantities to locals, confident in her immunity from any sort of punishment. At the time, moonshine was noted as a way to “let loose,” medicinal, a cleaning agent, or a preservative. Mahala’s famous pear brandy brought in customers from all across the mountains.

    Mullins was too large to be moving around the home. So, she took on the entrepreneurial mountain woman spirit of conducting operations that supported her large family from her bedside. She was often open in saying that it was not wrong for her to make a living in that manner. Mahala’s cabin was a special reserve for her, as her husband and sons had lost their lives in mountain fights and were buried in the backyard so that she could gaze at their gravesites from her bedside.

    Mullins always seemed to be confined to the mountaintop ridge in which she lived, having spent her childhood and adult life within a three-mile radius, never venturing to town or seeing a railway train. However, she delighted in visitors and conversations, having been known for telling a great story and offering cookies and milk to her guests.

    Around age 75, Mullins passed away and was removed from her cabin through a hole that is now occupied by a chimney. She was buried in her four-poster bed beside her late husband and sons along the ridge on the homestead.

    Melungeons in Appalachia Mullins was also noted as one of the most famous Melungeons of her time. Melungeon is a term that first appeared in print in the 19th century, used in Virginia, Tennessee, and North Carolina to describe people of mixed ancestry. The Hancock Couny area was known to host one of the largest populations of Melungeon people in the country. Melungeons were considered to have a mixture of European, Native American, and African ancestry. And, Mahala Mullins was just as about as mysterious as her heritage.

    !Mahala Mullins Cabin

    Mahala Mullins Cabin The cabin has been relocated to town and into a museum that tells the story of Mahala and the area. Vardy Community Historical Society 3845 Vardy Blackwater Road Sneedville, TN 37869

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    What is the weirdest thing that your family does together?

    When I was a kid, it'd have to be Memorial Day. All the extended family would convene at the old family cemetery to decorate the graves. That isn't the weird thing... the weird thing was we treated it as a family reunion and picnicked together among the head stones.

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    Where have you been camping so far this summer?

    I camp in a travel trailer, and have done 2 road trips so far with the hubby. First trip was Savannah>St. Augustine>Charleston. We were short on choice in Savannah and stuck with a KOA sandwiched between Hwy 17 and 95. It... was a safe place to park and the showers were decent, I'll give it that. The campground in St Augustine was out on the barrier islands and just a whole old Florida vibe (North Beach Camp Resort). I loved the privacy between spots, and the 2 restaurants within waking distance. Not cheap, and not normally our thing, but it was our anniversary. On our way back north we stopped in Charleston at a city park that had a campground (James Island County Park) . It was perfect y'all. Affordable, in/out privileges with a gate code after hours, a lake and a water park on site, wooded campsites with full hookups, and didn't feel crowded even though it was relatively full.

    Our second road trip was to a music festival that took us through West Virginia. We stayed in a couple of state parks passing through, and I definitely want to go back in the fall. WV just has beautiful parks, and I got a good dose of "felt like home" even though I'm from southwestern VA.

    Being on the east coast, I wish we had more prevalent places to boondock such as BLM land. Sure we've got logging roads in National Forests, but there is also a lot of privately owned property peppered through the forests I'm familiar with, and I'm nervous I'm going to piss someone off by trespassing.

    So where all have you been this season? Hit me with ideas!

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