Dynamic List of Autism-Related Songs. Please add songs!
Here's a post to share songs that are loosely related to autism. They don't have to specifically mention autism, but be related to it in some fashion. It would be helpful if you include an explanation as to how you find it is related to autism and what the song means to you.
So white that the veins of your brains are visible
Like coffee, without milk, very black
Poor body mass distribution like cows
A big belly but with skinny legs
Big head, small body
Cellulitis with soft thighs
Big lips, bembón or bembona (terms for big lipped man and woman)
A nose that looks like another person
Here we are all deformed
And we resist using uniforms
The ugliest part of the flower is the stem
Beauty feeds on mistakes
Because we look curious
We make the pretty people nervous
Let all the people point at us
What isn't the same stands out
I'm abnormal!
I'm abnormal!
I'm abnormal!
We are abnormal
What I like about you
Is that you are abnormal
I'm abnormal!
I'm abnormal!
I'm abnormal!
We are abnormal
What I like about you
Is that you are abnormal.
Our sexuality awakens
The DNA with spread legs
The chromosomes dancing bolero
The hungry hormones licking their leathers
And we procreate a very strange thing
Like ourselves but with another face
Our genetics, a labyrinth
We are equally different
What gets mixed up is more interesting
Like a fly with elephant ears
The colors triplicate, no one loses
Yellow with blue make green
Original, it cannot be copied
What is impure cannot be duplicated
The race fixes itself when it is damaged
We are the tribe that washes with dirt
I'm abnormal!
I'm abnormal!
I'm abnormal!
We are abnormal
What I like about you
Is that you are abnormal
I'm abnormal
I share this songs for several reasons:
One, the artist is openly autistic, saying in one of his songs that he was diagnosed as a kid. To me, it seems like he also takes special effort to be authentic and engage in his uniqueness without any shame.
Two, the song is called "We're Abnormals". My Hispanophone family nicknamed me Arnold Mal, which was pretty clever on multiple levels. I was the first American-born and native Anglophone in the family, so the name Arnold was fitting in that they saw it as an English name. Also, when read in Spanish, "Arnold Mal" sounds like they are calling me abnormal. That was fitting because I was definitely the weirdo of the family. Before diagnosis, it made sense since I grew up with my father's side of the family, yet stuck out as being oddly different from them. They often told me that I reminded them of my mother my entire life. I had embraced it because I was proud to not take after a lot of their traits, which I found did not match well with my ethical standards. After diagnosis, it makes even much more sense since I'm autistic and they aren't (bonus: my mother was very likely autistic). I stuck out for being odd in my manner of doing things, preferring order, limited socialization compared to them, interacting softly, and having a strong moral code. Related to the strong moral code, the artist has a history of composing songs that stand up for underdogs and disadvantaged people, which I can relate to my whole life.
Three, because of my experiences and projecting that onto the artist, I see it as him having similar experiences, probably being labelled as abnormal since childhood. By the way, abnormal is a common term for those that aren't neurotypical in Latin America. He taking on the identity as if saying, "If I'm abnormal, then I'm going to be proud of being abnormal with all my other abnormals," then, celebrating being abnormal and its benefits. Basically, the song is about being prideful of being different, and I love that. Ultimately, the song is about being proud of being you, especially if you're abnormal 🥹
Four, the song also has lyrics that relate to common autistic traits.
"We resist using uniforms," which is common among autistics to resist conformity.
"Because we look curious." Special interests! But also confused in social situations and I know I have a staring problem when I try to figure people out.
"What I like about you is that you are abnormal." Yep! I naturally gravitate to autistics, even before knowing I was autistic. But also, there's research to support that with the concept of the double-empathy theory that argues that autistic people aren't lacking empathy, they're just better at empathizing with other autistics. The same goes for neurotypical people in that they also empathize better with other allistics.
"Our sexuality awakens, the DNA with spread legs." I've read that autistic people tend to have atypical sexual preferences, from asexuality to uncommon kinks.
"Our genetics, a labyrinth." This reminds me of the autism evaluation process when the evaluator tried to figure out who else in my family was autistic.
"We are equally different". Yeah, we're just different. No worse, no better.
"What gets mixed up is more interesting...What I like about you is that you are abnormal." To me, autistic people tend to be much more interesting. They have their uniqueness and special interests.
Yesterday, i learned about AURORA. She should not be missing here. Check out her magnificent voice and deeply emotional music.
This song, A Different Kind of Human (Youtube) (Invidious) talks about the sense of not belonging on this planet and it's a dream about being taken home.
About Aurora herself, if she would fit any diversity categoriy is of course solely her business to not care about :-) (Youtube) (Invidious). She performs with plenty of whole-body gesturing which reminds me of Sinéad O'Connor.
You're welcome! While Eminem hasn't explicitly stated it, there's a lot of evidence indicating that he's autistic. I think the song Legacy is too on point of the autistic experience for an NT to write. In Wicked Ways, he has a line that says, "Ever heard of Asperger's? It's a rare condition..." Later on in the same song, there are lyrics that go:
To this day I, still get in fights with the same broad
At the same Walmart arguing over the same cart
In the middle of the aisle wil'in'
I don't give a fuck, I don't play
Bitch you think you saw this basket first?
You're ass backwards like motherfucking Bob and Silent Jay
The dude is seriously rapping in an official song about what would be considered a minor issue, but because he's so set on rules and morals, a lady taking a basket he saw first drives him bonkers, lol. That would totally be me if I didn't have autism therapy to help me put that into perspective and be more chill about it.
Additionally, I think that the fact that he's White but involved in rap hints at his autistic perspective on the stupidity of race. Like, he surely sees that there is systemic racism, but it seems to me that he innately doesn't believe in race as concrete characteristic that naturally divides humans into distinct categories. Otherwise, he'd probably be less involved in a music style that is mostly dominated by Black people. This argument might just be me projecting my beliefs though 🤷♂️
But to answer your question: yes, it seems like you intuitively related to Eminem because he's one of us (✋🏳️🌈AUT😀ISM🏳️🌈🤚). He seems to have savant-level skill with rhyming and music to the point that many famous rappers have publicly stated that they will not start problems with Eminem because his response would be embarrassingly better. The dude is a rap legend.
Personally, I totally get his rhythm. I feel like it's similar to how I speak: atypical spurts that are on beat with pauses and extensions in the middle of statements for effect or to think and rhythmic inflections for artistic fun/to be silly and have a style. Whereas other rappers seem to have a more fluid and standard rhythm where the inflections are at the ends to emphasize the meaning of entire message, which matches how NTs speak.