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I'm a trans man. We don't have a secret agenda – we're just asking you to let us live. I'm a trans man. We don't have a secret agenda – we're just asking you to let us live.

I didn't have the language growing up to know that I am trans, but I knew I was different. I hope my son never has to face what I did.

I'm a trans man. We don't have a secret agenda – we're just asking you to let us live.

I don't know why I was born transgender, but I have no secret agenda. I want my child to live in a world where they are safe and free to be exactly who they are.

Fewer than 1 in 3 people report personally knowing someone who is transgender. Yet the American public is saturated with viral social media videos and political news stories, largely generated by a well-funded coalition of organizations long dedicated to making it as difficult as possible for LGBTQ+ people to go about their daily lives.

These organizations proudly advocate for the abuse of LGBTQ+ young people through the dangerous and discredited practice of conversion therapy, and they have celebrated their role in influencing Texas to “investigate” parents who’re doing their level best to support their transgender kids.

They’ve succeeded in generating national debates about excluding transgender kids from school sports, banning medically necessary health care and even prohibiting restroom usage – all under a guise of “protecting young people.” But these debates are largely missing the point.

Transgender people are our friends, family members and neighbors. They work in the cubicle next to us at the office, and they pray next to us in our houses of worship.



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  • I reject the idea that supporting some young people must come at the expense of others.'re adding transgender athletes at the expense of biological females. It's hard to take that statement at face value.

    • Banning all transgender atheletes due to one or two high performers does a dis-service to all transgendered atheletes though.

      It's not all female atheletes who are being disadvantaged, but it WOULD be all transgender atheletes disadvantaged.

      I have no problem with transgender atheletes as long as the competition guidelines are clear, obtainable, and the students stay within the guidelines.

      If it becomes an issue where all transgender students are repeatedly setting records and such, making it impossible for non-transgendered kids to compete? Then you change the competitive guidelines, you don't ban an entire class of kids from competing.

      For example:

      1. Must be on puberty blockers for x months or years.

      2. Must be on proper hormones for x months or years.

      Heck, they might even require re-assignment surgery.

      The problem with guidelines like this, is the people opposed to trans atheletes are ALSO opposed to puberty blockers, hormone therapy, and re-assignment surgery.