every single used-to-be-a-gifted-child i've spoken to both IRL and online has been diagnosed with some neurodivergence

not saying it's a rule, but the overlap is rather suspicious

a very important disclaimer! i was mostly thinking about art and stuff lmao

🥹 yeaaaa

also "gifted" is a funny way to say "neurodivergent", and now, 2 years after finishing uni and battling my adhd to try to find a job - i'm realising that 1) i've never known struggle and have the determination of a water bottle, most likely because school required little to no effort for me to do good 2) the job market is full of lies, manipulation, and bullshit, and i'm used to the academia's world of like, saying what you mean and being honest? 3) i wish i got to lose like 40IQ points so i could be a happy himbo doing sports or welding or something idc 4) your IQ means nothing, it's a metric of "potential" and i'm so fucking tired of hearing about how much potential i have

as someone who for the longest time sat on my ass thinking to myself "no i can't do this yet i'm not good enough at the thing" FUCK that attitude so hard, i've achieved nothing because i never get "good enough", i could always get better and so, in my own perspective, i was never "enough"

fuck it and go do the thing without adequate skills, you'll learn on the way and even if you fail you'll have gotten something out of it

i think they missed the bit where the disagreement is supposed to be about pizza toppings, or if it's better to have ice cream or dinner first, or otherwise about purely personal choices that don't affect anybody else negatively

bet you're having lots of fun :3 i just meant in general, there's lots of brats out there that assume every dom likes brat taming while for quite a few it's a turn off

high IQ is no fun in this damned world, welcome your new anxiety and depression!

not everyone likes bratting or being bratted to! make sure your partner enjoy it before engaging in it

tbh, a 7mm crack is the best case scenario

your brain is fully aware that you can just have two handful of nuts and be good for a couple of hours. Just because your brain also believes that you gotta have a proper meal doesn't matter

I also have "Isreal" "genocide" and "Palestine" because fuck man, I'd rather not listen about the horrors that break my fucking faith in humanity every single goddamn day

ignorance isn't just bliss, nowadays it's the only way to feel joy again

valid and relatable, I prefer eating fresh so I don't freeze much aside from ice cubes and the occasional bread, and there's this half a package of fish sticks just, in the freezer, probably not good to eat anymore, but taking them out would be more effort than leaving them there

👁👄👁 man trusts his one discord password, himself, and discord's security way too much

yea i'm aware, i rarely need full resolution photos on my phone. And if i do i send myself a wetransfer link on discord

if it's an image or something small i just send it to myself on discord

remember that though the time is vastly extended - things can still go bad in the freezer https://foodsguy.com/how-long-fish-last-freezer/

even i don't make the cut :( began transition in 2018 and though it feels like it was a week ago it happened 6 years ago, apparently

intersex people are exactly that - somewhere outside of the binary of the two sexes. Thanks to them we see the clearest example of how gender is simply assigned to a child at birth. Majority of intersex children are forced into one of the binary sexes and then forcefully assigned a gender to match so they can be "normal".

and it honestly comes down to the individual if they see themselves as trans or not, some might see what their parents did to be a forced transition, some might want to detransition from that, some might not

by the end game I was running around with two druids, Gale and a Karlach. It was enough to create an army

• x3 fire elemental lv 6

• x2 woodland being lv 5

• x6 ice elemental lv 4

spamming through "end turn" because moving them all will take longer than finishing the fight next turn was very annoying

though it did feel good to have a whole army at my command, the encounters took forever

you know how sometimes you're trying to solve a puzzle but you're stuck at the very beginning? You can spend hours looking at the puzzle and get nowhere. But then you spot it! the one step or the one logical conclusion you needed to advance, and you start blasting through the puzzle

it's that