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Thoughts on why small talk is so uniquely painful
  • For me personally, I’ve been able to “learn” to respond with a few generic answers but that still doesn’t change the over analysis after the fact.

    Did I seem genuine enough? I wish I could tell them how I really feel. Why bother responding if it’s a lie? I hate lying. Etc.

    So yeah outwardly I appear to be good at small talk. (Heck I even worked sales for a few years) but internally it’s draining.

  • Vote "No" on the Special Ballot Measure in Ohio! Final Day to Vote, August 8th!
  • I drive through Medina county a lot and still I've only seen 2 yes signs and those were at in front of large farms. On the flip side I've seen maybe a dozen no signs, even in the countryside. For those not in the know, Medina county spawned Jim Renacci so the sign ratio is surprising.

  • I feel like I'm spending less time on social media after switching to Lemmy
  • I’ve always assumed it was due to the size of Reddit. I don’t care about anime at all but because lots of other people do it reaches the front page. This is why I became very liberal with the block button to tailor the feed.

  • Place is going exactly as expected
  • You missed the best part, in the German Flag, they've written "u/spez ist ein Hurensohn!"

    Translation: u/spez is a son of a whore/bitch (Google says bitch, commenters are saying whore.)

  • Good Time to Vacation in Michigan?
  • I just spent the weekend in Saugutuck (near Holland) and the AQI was less than 10! We’ve been going for a few years now so I’m biased. We stay in the town and then to get to the beach there’s a ferry for $3 and a 20 minute hike through a forested area.

  • Simple Living and tools
  • Going down the woodworking rabbit hole led me to discover Mortise and Tenon magazine, which is focused on using hand tools. One of their main points is that when using a table saw for instance, we have to incorporate all these extra tools to keep us safe from the machine. (Hearing protection, push sticks and other jigs) If you use a hand saw, none of these extras matter and the effective use is completely in your hands.

    It does require more skill building but for me that’s the fun part.

    Also consider that with a properly adjusted hand plane or card scraper, you can completely replace sand paper. So on one hand you have a device that only needs occasional sharpening but on the other hand you are constantly rebuying supplies.

  • Dammit
  • Best thing I ever did was hang peg board. Two actually, one for pans (pots still live in the cabinet), and another for the most used utensils. I love having all my measuring spoons and cups hanging next to the cutting board.

  • Is the internet healing?
  • Yes, but I think it's as @[email protected] says. As any form of social media grows past a certain point, the more everything becomes 'averaged out' to the lowest common denominator. IE the things that get upvoted the most end up being only things with mass appeal across the breadth of the user base. From past experience we know this is by and large rage-bait.

    Of course this can be mitigated to an extent by carefully curating what you're blocking and subscribed to. Furthermore defederating can effect this but I'm not yet knowledgeable enough to guess how effective.

  • City of Aurora hopes to purchase, renovate Geauga Lake, Sea World site
  • I just drove passed there a few weeks ago for a wedding, first time since they closed Six Flags. It was really quite sad to see that it's been just vacant this whole time. I'm pleasantly surprised to see it going to benefit the community! Any idea why it never got turned into housing developments?

  • Is the Lemmy sign-up just broken for most instances
  • I had the spinning wheel issue when trying to sign up at midwest.social this morning. I left it for an hour and it was still spinning so I copied my answer, closed the tab, and reapplied. After 3 attempts it went through instantly. YMMV with other instances though ¯\(ツ)

    I hope it didn't send multiple requests but considering I applied to Beehaw.org a week ago and left it spinning all day and never got a confirmation email, I assume it didn't.