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MrVilliam @lemmy.world
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What's your unique story about a job loss?
  • I'm guessing that EI is what you call unemployment benefits where you are? In which case, unfortunately no. Previous employer made up bullshit to fire me over so I wasn't eligible, and I was told I didn't work long enough at the place that burned down to qualify. My savings got almost entirely wiped out just paying rent and buying groceries.

    It was a dark time full of struggles, but I got through it and I'm doing pretty well now. The silver lining is that, when I'm having a rough week, I can think back to how that chunk of life was going and know that I've gotten through worse. I was homeless for about two months a bit later, but by then I found a job and knew that I'd find stability soon. Things didn't actually start getting good until I quit the kitchen career. And I'm one of the lucky few who never even got sucked into the hard drug aspect of that life. Never even smoked a cigarette lol.

  • What's your unique story about a job loss?
  • I was unemployed for a while in late 2010, early 2011 and was constantly on the job search. I was a line cook previously and was looking for similar work. I finally got in at a sports bar, but they only had an opening for a host at the time, so I took it. When I went in on my third day, I found that the place had fucking burned down.

    I was unemployed for another few months before finding a new job. That was a rough year or so lol.

  • The correct response to a rape threat.
  • I didn't think I needed to say it (based on the rest of the comment), but I haven't intentionally raped anybody either lol. I know, I'm a real hero and champion of the people for never raping anybody. Truly the Jesus of my time. It's a high bar, yet I somehow clear it every day without even breaking a sweat.

  • The correct response to a rape threat.
  • I thought I was pretty clear about it when you said that you were against the idea of posts about people defending themselves against rapists.

    Being against it can only really be viewed as an objection to consequences for rapists raping people.

    I'm not saying that you're currently defending rapists, but it sounds an awful lot like you would be on the rapists' side since you wouldn't stand up to a request to block content that suggests that a rape victim should defensively harm their rapist to stop their rape. If that's your stance, then that's defending a rapist. That would be advocating against consequences for rapists, and I'm assuming that only a rapist who wanted to continue getting away with it would order such a thing. Or maybe it's on behalf of their rapist friends. The point is that people who don't rape people shouldn't have any problem with the idea that rapists should know that getting killed in their quest to commit a rape is a very real possibility, and most people wouldn't even feel sorry for them for being killed while attempting rape.

    If there's a situation where we need to choose whether a person gets raped or the person attempting the rape gets killed in order to stop/prevent that rape, I don't think there's even anything to debate.

    It's no wonder women chose bears. jfc.

  • The correct response to a rape threat.
  • It's not advocating for violence. It's advocating for defending against rape. Without rape, which is obviously violent in and of itself, there's no violence to speak of. The bottom line here is that, through deterrence, this sort of post yields a reduction in violence. Being against it can only really be viewed as an objection to consequences for rapists raping people.

    If you got a ticket ordering you to cut off Lemmy over this, then it's your duty to push back. An awful lot of terrible people were "just following orders" and the world doesn't forgive that excuse. Stop defending rapists.

  • Mexico Signals It Could Hit Back With Tariffs at U.S.
  • Conservatives are generally hierarchical pussies. Whoever is high ranking and assertive about being the new leader will be the new leader and everybody will line up to be his footrest. Even without a decent choice, they will push somebody into the position even if they're bland garbage. Source: the shit show that was them searching for a House Speaker and settling for Mike Johnson.

    The ones with the balls to break away from the party only did so to follow trump, and they now control the party because eventually the cowards got in line like good little followers. I think that trump losing this time may have convinced enough to steer the party back to a less extreme position, but his win taught them that the country is ready for full on christofascism, and there's nothing to be gained from the inevitable failure that would be an attempt to fracture/mutiny the party. They're more evil than dumb.

  • The correct response to a rape threat.
  • I see where you're coming from, but no, just like how everybody was cool with Indiana Jones killing Nazis, we're all pretty cool with rapists getting killed by their victims.

    Don't want to get killed by a rape victim? Then don't rape them. Pretty simple stuff. I'm 36 next month I haven't accidentally raped anybody even once, so I'm pretty sure you're fine if you're not actively trying to prey upon somebody.

    Violence is the only language these people "joking" about "your body, my choice" can understand. If we make it clear that we will fucking kill them if they try to act on that "joke" then it may serve as a deterrent. Too many women are sexually assaulted and raped, and most of their predators get away with it.

    Let's all stop being so goddamn tolerant. I don't care if it hurts a rapist's feelings. If you have a problem with that stance, then I implore you to take a good hard look at what kind of person you are that you would side with a rapist against somebody who would defend themselves against their rapist. Maybe that makes you an accessory to rape, because at that point, you're worse than complicit, you're actively supporting rape.

    I didn't think it'd be such a hot take to say that rapists who get killed while attempting rape got what they had coming to them, but here we are.

  • Mexico Signals It Could Hit Back With Tariffs at U.S.
  • You're absolutely right and I hate it. Once he finally dies, prepare for neotrumpism, which is the same thing but more quiet and headed by smarter, prettier, younger people. And it could happen sooner than people are prepared for. Vance will be a heartbeat away from the presidency. Who do you think will be in his inner circle?

  • Donald Trump Has 'Obligations' to Those Who Brought Him To Power - Nikolai Patrushev
  • I'm not sure that he's even mentally capable of the abstraction necessary to consider such a thing. If he did a freaky Friday body swap with a somehow horny 7 year old boy, I'm not sure we'd ever know the difference. Dude likes trucks and cops and hamberders, and has absolutely zero media literacy and introspection skills.

  • Donald Trump Has 'Obligations' to Those Who Brought Him To Power - Nikolai Patrushev
  • And you're just being alarmist for suggesting that he'll do the things he's literally promised that he will do. He's obviously joking when he's talking about tariffs and deportations and using the military against "the enemy from within" and "finishing the job" in Palestine. Because, you see, Kamala laughed too much or something.

  • Elon Musk's PAC spent an estimated $200 million to help elect Trump, AP source says
  • And I'm sure his wealth will grow by $100 billion as a result. If your only moral compass is your net worth, then that was obviously the best thing he could've done. Among the best investments he's ever made.

    But that's obvious. It doesn't make him smart. He's still a stupid, sexist, white supremacist asshole.

  • Withdrawal is going to make people go mad
  • Well boy howdy, it turns out we already been done doin that there part about criminalizing and incarcerating them black people just out of sheer racism. You're telling me that there could've been a profit motive to it this whole time too?

    jk, private contracted prisons were already profiting deeply off of that.

  • Withdrawal is going to make people go mad
  • That can't be right. Corn can't be only 85% of our food.

    But seriously, there's so much goddamn corn. Our meat is fed corn. Our processed foods and drinks are pumped full of corn. Even our fucking cars eat corn. We're up to our fucking ears in ears of corn.

  • What is the weirdest thing you’ve ever seen at a thrift store?
  • Not so much weird, but it's weird that it's simultaneously hilarious and day-ruiningly depressing.

    I saw a little bowl with small jewelry in it like charms and earrings. Among them was the right half of a heart that read "FRIENDS" and just below that was "EVER". I'm 100% certain that there exists somewhere the left half of that heart that reads "BEST" and "FOR" with identical formatting, and that friendship either ended dramatically or fizzled out over time.

    It made me think about some previous close friendships I've had and how people can either just grow apart or have a violent falling out. And I wondered who in their right mind would buy just half of that best friends forever charm. Why would a thrift shop even have that available?

    Kinda fascinating that an entire coming of age story can be told by just half of a piece of jewelry I found at a thrift store, and I'll never know the truth, yet I'll never forget it.

  • My wife is angry with somebody at our bank.

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    What is the best alternative to Cozi? (shared calendar and list app)

    My wife and I have been using Cozi for years to manage our work schedules, plan dates, block off personal time, and manage grocery lists and to-do lists. There has been some pretty egregious enshittification through locking more and more essential features behind a paywall and now it's altering times for some reason and straight up losing list items and calendar entries. I'm done. Its only function was to maintain calendar items and lists so I wouldn't need to manually remember everything; it's worthless if I can't trust it to remember for me.

    So now we're looking for a replacement tool to manage our family. FOSS preferred, but not required. I'm even open to using two separate apps for it, one for calendar and another for lists. We just need them to live online so we can independently add to it while the other person is asleep or at work.

    I'm hoping that somebody else has already done the legwork to find the best option?

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    Bikini Bottom Twitter @lemmy.world MrVilliam @lemmy.world

    What are they even doing up there? Jazzercise?

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    CRANKING HOGS AND SAWING LOGS

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    Such benefits. Very wow. Praise the almighty job creators.

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    Political Memes @lemmy.world MrVilliam @lemmy.world

    What do you think history textbooks will say 50 years from now?

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    Their boycotts are always so effective...

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    Last Call of the Season

    There's only a week or so left! If anybody wants to party up to try to climb just a little further, DM me. I think I'm Diamond 1 in 2s and plat 2 or 3 in 3s, but with a teammate who meshes with me I can do much better.

    Everybody well above or well below my rank, put your rank down so others can try to find a buddy or two as well.

    With player trading coming to an end, I guess this could also be a last call for trades.

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    US East 2s Diamond

    It's the last weekend of the season. Anybody looking to go for broke in ranked to see what's possible with fewer inhibitions?

    I'm on PS5 in NoVA and bouncing around low Diamond. If you rotate properly, I'll forgive every whiff.

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    Fun Team Names?

    Whether it's a club name, club tag, or tournament name, what are some interesting names you've used or seen?

    My friends and I recently played a tournament and somehow won with the name Socialist Jiu Jitsu. Our club name is Aunt Tifa. We used the club tag [BLM] for a while, but the amount of racism in the text chat was exhausting, so now it's just [ANTI]. It was pretty entertaining to get people tilted and then silently dunk on them, but the toxicity wasn't fun most of the time.

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    Work/Life Balance

    Nobody ever laid on their death bed wishing they had worked more.

    Breathe clean air. Enjoy sunlight. Eat fresh produce. Be a free human when you can.

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    Zuck be pouncing

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    The secret to becoming the cleverest witch of her age

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