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Mothra Mothra @mander.xyz
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  • Thanks, I also had no idea

  • Why does my cat like to go into the bathroom and take my towel off the holder and then leave?
  • So... Your cat does my #2 when you do your #2? Def #2

  • Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? (Edit: No, she is not gaslighting me, but may have some other issues.)
  • yes you would be responsible!!!!1!1!! you'd be sent to jail with the same sentence as the kidnapper whether they catch it or not!!!

    Of course not. I would brush this off thinking your GF is probably not even 20 years old yet. The situation sounds a bit immature. I would be concerned if she's older than 25 and making that scene though, it sounds like a very large red flag. Now, perhaps she's been through some trauma that would explain the behaviour, if that's the case you may want to consider professional help.

  • Why does my cat like to go into the bathroom and take my towel off the holder and then leave?
  • Three possible reasons:

    1- They're into your smell and trying to rub themselves on something that smells like you,

    2- they're trying to get your attention,

    3- if the litter is also in the bathroom, they could be cleaning their paws on the towel. I've seen cats scratch everything in the room after using the litter.

    From the way you phrased the question my money is on #2, but you know better. It might be time to get a higher towel bar or close the bathroom door

  • just found a flea on our cat, do we go full nuclear?
  • You have a ton of comments so I'll keep it short. Fleas are very, very, very extremely hard to get rid of once they reach critical mass. Their eggs can remain dormant for up to two years, and they're immune to pest control methods including bombs.

    My suggestion: get a pill based flea treatment, read the dosage instructions and keep it going for at least 3 months. Clean and vacuum regularly. You don't need to buy a steam cleaner but other than that your girl is spot on.

  • French centrists must decide: support the left – or hand the keys of power to the far right?
  • I would love to hear what's going on from the perspective of centrist living in France right now (as opposed to what the media says).

  • what to send other than flowers to say thank you?
  • Again I don't know about your local rules or what's available but since you were considering flowers and decided against them because of the price, my suggestion would be a nice thank you card and maybe a small tiny cheap succulent plant. They are hardy, easy to keep even on a desk and they cost like a cup of coffee or so.

  • Hey remember when you did that
  • Hah! 23 in my case. Still haunts me

  • Zero
  • Personally I would just say, "when you're solving equations". That's pretty much my math face no matter what kind of math

  • Tea versus Coffee
  • I gave up coffee as part of my daily routine, so, tea. I try to switch up with camomile in an effort to moderate the tannins intake.

  • Every sperm for themselves!
  • I figured a picture of a marathon vs people on a queue

  • NSFW
    If I don't care what pronouns are used, can I still be an ally?
  • There are many reasons why people may not disclose their pronouns and I wouldn't presume that means taking a stance against trans or anyone.

    If today I saw emojis listed as someone's pronouns, my first thought would be that they're trolling or taking it as a joke though.

    Just be yourself, show your support in any way that makes you feel comfortable and if anyone asks why you don't disclose yours you can just say pretty much what you've just said. I think it's understandable enough.

  • Germans and pizza
  • I don't speak German but I also don't have any kind of language filter on Lemmy so I'm a bit disappointed I haven't seen any pizza memes. I miss the Bean and Beef Stroganoff times

  • What are some marketing tactics that you dislike ?
  • Yes I hate teeth whitening in general. I really dislike that unnatural shade of white. What gets me of their advertising methods is that they usually prey on people's insecurities based on the myth that the whiter your teeth the healthier they must be.

  • Russia's LGBTQ+ community is turning to Telegram as the government cracks down on them
  • I don't understand why someone would downvote you or why this opinion would cause an impact of any kind? People say all sorts of crazy things online. Was she particularly rude, trollish or baitey?

  • That erratic pulsating sensation on your legs after a brisk walk- what is it? And more questions
  • I think your experience sounds like the benign fasciculation another lemming described. Look for the video link among the comments

  • What bird did this feather come from?
  • Beautiful bird but note the feather in question has marks of barring, which this bird doesn't show. Jays jave barred feathers though

  • Russia's LGBTQ+ community is turning to Telegram as the government cracks down on them
  • I'm missing out on this particular bit of Lemmy Lore, did something happen?

  • That erratic pulsating sensation on your legs after a brisk walk- what is it? And more questions
  • That's so interesting, thanks for sharing the link. But in my case, nothing moves. After reading some replies and googling more I'm more inclined to think it's just the capillaries and small arteries delivering blood to the skin with different amounts of delay.

  • That erratic pulsating sensation on your legs after a brisk walk- what is it? And more questions

    As the title says. I go for a 20 minute walk and when I stop moving, I'm not feeling tired or even agitated at all, yet my legs feel like they're pulsating in different areas, always near the skin. It's not synchronised with my heartbeat. It stops after a few minutes.

    Chat GPT says these are just muscle twitches caused by dehydration or lack of electrolytes. I'm not convinced. Why does it feel almost on the skin and not deeper in the muscles? Why do I feel it after a 20 minute walk that doesn't make me sweat but I don't feel it after a 40 minute leg focused workout???? Wouldn't that be more strenuous on the legs?? Does this thing even have a name?

    Thanks

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    What mundane things of our era could be seen as beautiful or admirable in the future?

    For example, buildings and houses more than a hundred years old keep getting more and more rare, and often have an aesthetic that stands out, more ornate or with a particular style that most people can't afford today or that is not financially convenient etc. But back in the day, that's how things were built and most people didn't put much thought into it.

    Another example, illustrations for advertisements ( either billboards or magazines). Up until the 60s (declining from the 70s onwards) a lot of ads had hand drawn illustrations, which required a lot of skill and talent to make. Yet people took them for granted, it was the standard quality of illustration for ads.

    So the question is, are we currently mass producing something that will be seen in a similar light in a couple of generations? Thoughts?

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    New pterosaur species discovered in Queensland

    www.abc.net.au Outback fossil find confirms giant 'demonic pelicans' filled Australia's skies 100 million years ago

    Fossilised remains thought to be 100 million years old have been identified as a new species of pterosaur, a powerful flying predator with a wingspan of up to 12 metres.

    Outback fossil find confirms giant 'demonic pelicans' filled Australia's skies 100 million years ago
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    Australia's "age of monotremes": new platypus species

    www.abc.net.au 'This was like a bonanza': What Tim Flannery's discovery in a museum drawer could tell us about Australia's monotremes

    The "echidnapus" is one of the newly described ancient monotremes from a fossil hotspot in NSW that could give us more clues about an era when egg-laying mammals diversified.

    'This was like a bonanza': What Tim Flannery's discovery in a museum drawer could tell us about Australia's monotremes
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    Will people show off their old computers and phones in say, 30 or 50 years in the future?

    Every now and then I see a vintage car in the street, originally from the 40s or 60s, in spotless condition. Cars have been around for longer than computers.... But would such a thing be viable for electronics?

    Wait, does it exist already and I never heard of it?

    This... Really feels like a very stupid question. Sorry

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    Anyone had good results with hair growth products/methods?

    I'm starting to notice my hair is thinning a bit. Nothing drastic. Just natural aging. No, nothing unusual came up when I got my blood tests, my doctor didn't find anything wrong with me.

    I'm just asking to see if any of you had good luck with any products. I know grafting is an option, and I also know that there are hair clinics which are very expensive etc. but I'm after an "at home" method.

    Is there a product you would recommend?

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    edition.cnn.com Ecuador declares ‘internal armed conflict’ as gunmen take over live TV broadcast | CNN

    Ecuador’s President Daniel Noboa has declared an “internal armed conflict” in the country, ordering security forces to “neutralize” several criminal groups accused of spreading extreme violence in Ecuador.

    Ecuador declares ‘internal armed conflict’ as gunmen take over live TV broadcast | CNN
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    How is it possible that a laptop can read a CD flawlessly, but every other device I've tried the CD on skips at certain parts?

    I've had this CD for ages. Decades. It would always skip at a certain parts on two of its tracks. I've never in my life heard the full CD because of this reason, always having to skip forward to the next track.

    I've listened to it on at least four different devices, among them a very large Sony home stereo system. I've always thought the CD was faulty.

    But today, I ripped the CD on a cheap old laptop and guess what. For the first time in my life I heard the whole uninterrupted tracks. What is this sorcery? Can someone explain?

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    Just before death you are granted one truthful, understandable answer to one question. What would you want to know?

    Obviously a hypothetical scenario. There is no way to pass on the knowledge to anyone else. Time freezes for you only, and once you have your answer you are out of this world.

    The question can allow you to see into the past, present and future and gain comprehension of any topic/issue. But it's only one question.

    Edit: the point isn't "how to cheat death". You can't. Your body is frozen and there is nothing you can do with this knowledge other than knowing it, and die. So if you would rather be frozen in a limbo just thinking of numbers for eternity, be my guest.

    Such a variety of replies, it's been really interesting to read them!

    What would you want to know? Personally I'd want to see a timelapse or milestone glimpses of humanity's future until the end of Earth's existence (if we survive that long)

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    Horse people of Lemmy- how easily can someone steal a random horse? (several questions)

    I'm not experienced with horses. I know many are trained to work for just about anyone. They were used in wars and police still use horses this day and age for crowd control, so I guess they can stomach a bit of violence and chaos. But most domestic animals behave differently with people they're familiar with vs random strangers, so I presume horses would follow suit?

    My question is inspired by countless movie/videogame scenarios in which there are a bunch of random horses tied, and a character just picks any, hops on and rides away.

    Or, there's a fight, horse owner gets killed and the thief rides away on the horse.

    Regarding horse behaviour only, are these realistic scenarios?

    How likely is that a horse would resist being mounted by a random?

    Wouldn't they be scared or angry if their previous rider just got killed right there?

    Is it possible for an experienced person to tell at a glance how obedient a horse is? (How?)

    These are my sudden horse questions. TIA

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    Do you follow any youtubers that talk about film, tv, animation or vfx?

    I'm wondering if you know about any creators making analysis or historical commentary on film.

    The only one I know is Every Frame a Painting, can you recommend others in a similar vein?

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    What does it look like for a YouTube creator when the audience uses something like NewPipe or Freetube?

    I'm not too tech savvy so I appreciate responses in layman's terms.

    I have a rough concept of how NewPipe works, (correct me if I'm wrong though!) basically it's a scrapper so it somehow reads the information in YouTube, anonymously, and filters the ads for you.

    What I'm interested in knowing is, how does this behaviour look like from YouTube's perspective. Can the platform "tell" that someone is accessing their content but not the ads that should go before and inbetween the videos? Do these views requested by NewPipe count towards the global amount of views a video has? Do content creators still get money from youtube ads with NewPipe views? Do they also get to see engagement data from views (such as which parts are skipped)? Etc etc.

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    How do you effectively prevent plaque/tartar forming on your teeth?

    My teeth are in good health and I take good care of them, yet I always get this plaque buildup no matter what I try.

    I've tried different brushes, toothpastes, and flossing methods to no avail. Mouthwash is too harsh on my mouth and peels my skin off so I avoid that.

    I haven't tried waterpicks or electric brushes yet. Did you? Did they work for you? Have you succeeded in preventing plaque and if so, how???

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    Vinegar as a cleaning agent is overrated

    What the title says. Sure, it's gentle on the environment, but it doesn't remove soap scum, grease, grime etc anywhere nearly as effective as other products. I also doubt its efficiency as an antibacterial compared to say alcohol or most detergents.

    There, I've said it.

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    What can cause an automatic car to suddenly shake and stop?

    It happened to my car last week, it got towed to a mechanic and I'm yet to hear back. I don't know a lot about cars, so I'm hoping I'll learn something here and be able to tell if the mechanic tries to rip me off.

    The car is a small hatchback automatic Hyundai Getz, 2009, serviced regularly. I've had it for 6 years with no major issues until about a year or so.

    Five days ago I was driving through the city for at least 40 minutes when suddenly, while waiting at the lights, the car shook and for a moment I thought it would stall. I stopped on a side street, waited 20 minutes and resumed my journey.

    About an hour later I'm on the motorway and it shakes again. I stop on the shoulder, wait, but it's not a safe area. I start again, only now I have the check engine light on my dashboard blinking. I manage to take an exit and my car stops on its own, the oil and battery lights now visible too. Fortunately there is no traffic here so I wait a minute, start again and park it on the shoulder.

    Roadside assistance arrives, the mechanic looks at it and finds nothing wrong with it other than a fuel sensor which is an issue I've had for several years now. We get it towed to a mechanic but they were closing shop by the time I arrived. Before closing the shop mechanic says that at a glance he doesn't see anything, but notes the oil looks very clean.

    I've never had the car shake like this. The last time it failed me was early this year, when it overheated during a very hot day, but it didn't shake. I've had the thermostat repaired since as well as a minor coolant leak.

    Congrats, you've read this far. Thoughts?

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    A good fantasy book? you know, wizards, dragons, princesses, that kind of stuff

    Well I'm craving something in this genre but I'm a bit overwhelmed and underwhelmed at the same time. So many titles and yet I'm not sure what to read. Maybe you can help?

    I'm looking for something in a high fantasy setting. I'm not too keen on heavy politics and war driven plots (though, I can read that ). What really gets me is interesting characters, good action and magical creatures.

    I've loved anything Discworld and I've also enjoyed the First Law books by Abercrombie.

    I'm finding that Tolkien, Sanderson and George RR Martin appear on every fantasy list I come across, so if you do recommend something I'd appreciate it be something other than that.

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    Find a Community @lemmy.ml Mothra @mander.xyz

    community to ask and talk about books?

    Preferably an active one? Thanks

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    can someone explain skibidi toilet please?

    I keep seeing it on my random feed suggestions and this is using NewPipe, so it has nothing to do with my actual YouTube activity (I think. Nothing there is stuff I'm interested in, with very few exceptions). So I've ignored it first, then I watched like two and was super confused. Wtf. These videos have millions of views and I don't even understand the name or what's the appeal.

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    Fiction audiobooks you've enjoyed?

    I'm looking for easy-to-listen-to fiction audiobooks. Something I can tune in while doing other stuff without getting distracted.

    I find some authors have styles that are a bit more sophisticated than others. The more thought-provoking, the more difficult I find to enjoy an audiobook while doing something else. I catch myself stopping whatever I'm doing to pay attention to the book, which is not what I want.

    So for example I've found The Witcher books very easy to listen to, it wouldn't matter if I missed a few seconds and I never found myself stopping to ponder about the text itself. The narrator was great too. Also bonus points as it was a long saga of books.

    In contrast I would never want to listen to a Terry Pratchett book while doing something else. He's probably my favourite English author but I find he's too much of a genius, and my poor brain wouldn't be able to digest it all if I'm not giving it my attention 100%.

    I hope this makes sense?

    How's your experience with audiobooks?

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