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How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • In the end, nothing matters at all; everything you and I do is ultimately going to fade into irrelevance when we’re dead.

    This is exactly why other people are the only thing that matters. I'm already depressed and have this nihilistic view. So doing hobbies that don't matter and I don't really care about doesn't mean shit to me. But making someone else feel good, and enjoying having a connection is the only thing that makes any of this worth it.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I'm planning on signing up for a couple of rec sports leagues on volo. I'm afraid everyone there is going to be like 20 years old though

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • She does. But it's a little complicated. And that also leads to my question. I talk with a couple people through her, but I don't know how to continue to stay in touch, or how to just talk with them except to plan an activity or something.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • That's how I've always felt. I've always been the friend of those people. I've only ever made 1 actual, deep connection with a person. And it's deeeeep. And I couldn't tell you how it happened. But I partly feel like I'm losing that, and I won't ever be able to get it back, or replicate it with someone else.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I think it's just so overwhelming to start from nothing with new people. I have essentially one person in my life who I've spent almost 2 decades with. I've always had trouble with balance. I have a few acquaintances, but I recently realized I need to have a closer relationship with more than 1 person.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I guess that's just not what I'm looking for. I have a couple people I do activities with. But that's not really a connection. I don't know. I guess I'm just depressed, but it's more than just that. I need some kind of lasting and consistent human connection.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I kind of disagree. I have some hobbies and I've done some of those things, but what matters to me is the human connection. So at the end of the day you have your herb garden, who cares? It's just going to die eventually, or you'll eat it, and it regrows. An endless cycle of no one giving a shit.

    But having someone to connect with and share an experience with, that's what matters to me.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I mean becoming more than acquaintances. And especially just having people to talk to at random times without pressure of 1 on 1 texting or phone calls. Like just sharing stupid memes and being able to asynchronous chat and get to know people.

    I guess what I want is to get close with people and not just be acquaintances. Especially at night

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I think it's more just that it's a low stakes way to "hang out" and chat without any commitment or pressure. At least that's how I see the value

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • What was the common thread from when you met the person? How did you hit it off with them?

    So I've been married for 12 years, and we've been together since college, where we met. And my wife's basically the only person I interact with socially. And I think I'm straining my marriage by using her as my crutch. I've kind of relied on her for literally all of my socializing, like tagging along with her and her friends. But I've recently realized that that's not healthy and I need someone to talk and interact with independent of her. But it's really hard.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • I'm not talking about random followers. I'm talking about how to keep in touch and get closer to people who you just met. Like sure you exchange numbers, but then what? You might text them to go do an activity. But that's only every so often.

    I guess I just don't know how it works, and I see everyone exchanging Instagram posts and in group discords and I don't know how to be included and involved

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?
  • But I'm really lonely and I think I need friends.

  • How do you connect with people and make friends without social media?

    I'm struggling to figure out how to make friends without having Instagram or any other social media. I have discord but don't use it much. I see all my acquaintances in discord channels and sharing Instagram posts and stuff. It's already hard for me to make friends, but I feel like not having any of the traditional social media means I'm not included in any of that stuff.

    Do you just accept that Instagram and shit are the way people interact and use it?

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    Heavy sweaters, how do you cope?
  • Exactly this. The bandana is key for me. Especially since I have long hair. Even with it pulled back if I don't have a bandana it's just the worst

  • University Students
  • This is so wrong. I would absolutely prefer no comments over incorrect comments, which is exactly what happens when things get over commented

  • Trump Says Supreme Court Should Bail Him Out of Criminal Conviction
  • As far as I know, the Supreme Court can't get involved in a state matter until all appeals in that state have been resolved, and even then won't take up the matter unless

    This is only because how the process normally works. But if they really wanted to get involved there's not really much that could stop them

  • [Request] How to get a tiny multitool past airport security?
  • THAT'S why that one, and also liquids over 3.74oz are on the list.

    Bullshit. There is literally nothing you can do with 4 oz of liquid that you can't do with 3. And there's 0 evidence that binary liquid explosives are even feasible to get through security. And if they're worried, they would actually test the liquid not make you dump it into the trash next to them.

  • Do 9-5 jobs still exist in the U.S.?
  • That's not uncommon for doctors offices and such

  • Anyone have luck with a hair growth *inhibitor*? Especially my fellow gentledudes who could be mistaken for sasquatch after skipping a day of shaving.
  • This isn't really true from what I know. Finasteride only prevents hair loss, and really only scalp here from my understanding.

  • Box Office: ‘Furiosa’ Just Barely Beats ‘The Garfield Movie’ in Disastrous Memorial Day Weekend — the Worst in Decades
  • This is exactly the experience with me and my wife too. She was not at all impressed with any of the performances. And I don't disagree I just don't really care that much.

    Though it's not even close to as good as fury road. I described it as "fine"

  • Using any DE be like:
  • I run arch and use the KDE beta package repo. Literally no problems. No idea what everyone is talking about here.

  • Jerusalem Post giving some advice for where to find good yiff

    www.jpost.com The 21 Best Derpibooru Sites for 2023

    Discover the best Derpibooru sites for 2023 with our comprehensive listicle. From the official Derpibooru.org to community-driven platforms, find the perfect site to elevate your pony-related content

    The 21 Best Derpibooru Sites for 2023

    Are newspapers really generating just-in-time AI generated articles based on random search engine searches? I searched DDG for "derpibooru top artists" and this was like the 4th search result.

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    Request to defederate from alien.top

    This is a spam instance that reposts reddit content, but the worst part is it creates a new user for every reddit user, making it impossible to block.

    Since we can't block instances at the user level yet, I request we defederate from this spam instance

    See an example here https://alien.top/comment/2110314

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    Wtf is this spammy subreddit

    You create a new user to repost that users content from reddit? This is absolutely ridiculous. You make it so we can't block your spam by blocking the bot user if you create a new user for every post.

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    Is there less yiff being posted these days?

    Maybe it's just me, but I feel like there's less new yiff are around these days. Maybe it's because the brony world is winding down now that mlp gen 4 is over? Or maybe I'm just wrong?

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    Yiff stories

    Is there any place for finding yiff stories? Like e621 but erotica? Ideally with ratings and such. I remember there being a couple places decades ago, but wouldn't really know where to go now.

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    One of my very early intros as a furry

    I was looking through some old songs from animated movies tonight. This one brought on some intense nostalgia. I know all dogs go to heaven 2 isn't the best movie, but I had the biggest crush on Sasha la Fleur. And I very vividly remember loving this song, but feeling embarrassed to admit it to anyone (don't think I ever did).

    With shit like this though https://youtu.be/6wjR1ZciUBQ, how did everyone not turn out to be furries?

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