Lily [she/her, pup/pup's] @lemmy.blahaj.zone she/her, pup/pup's
trans demisexual bisexual sapphic useless disaster lesbian puppygirl
reports from those who use EUn, through blood testing mostly
dont really recommend using it because its complicated and we dont know much about it
as for 90 days thing,, yknow theres a lot of trans creatures who have been on hrt for years right? x3
the DIY community exists and uses EUn regularly, subq and im have had a proven difference with it
there isnt any difference between subq and im levels wise* so it doesnt really matter, unless you get irritation from subq
* unless using estradiol undecylate
it's not bad,,,,, once you get over the brain fear of stabbing yourself its nice to only have to do it once a week or so
now if you have trypanophobia (needle phobia) it might be harder,,,, still know creatures who have done it though
So as long as drag is being thoughtful, considerate and friendly, I see no reason not to accommodate drag’s request.
You should respect everyone's pronouns no matter how they act, doing otherwise shows that you don't actually respect their pronouns and you are just doing so to be polite. Also, please don't call anyone's pronouns a "request".
yuck people who do this suck (the people saying "You must be a troll!",, apparently that wasnt obvious)
Lilith's Voice Training Resource Compendium
Bunch of random resources people may find useful, will update this post as new resources come along. Mostly from Reddit, any posts have been uploaded as PDFs to read.
[ A Mixture of Different Resources ]
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https://transvoice.party/ - a website that links to some more resources and talks about other stuff
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https://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/getting-started/ - Sumi's wiki. It's got a bunch of stuff with her own spin. Though you can see roots in other things too. You might find it useful.
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https://selenearchive.github.io/ Selene's clips
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https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/1cnqqttn.pdf Some advice on getting started
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https://cramdvoicelessons.blog/ Scinguistics' blog. Their takes are a little bit divergent from the general consensus at times but there is value to be found!
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https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/symceraa.pdf Mimicry advice from Jana
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https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/kcemii5t.pdf Some advice on practicing from Kin Maynard
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https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/5ksjvuak.pdf The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People
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https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/zraqbvzv.pdf Introductory Voice Training Resources Version 2.0
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https://www.undeadvoice.com/guide trans voice mega guide
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https://buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/no-explanations-instructions-feminizing
[ Some useful Videos from Trans Voice Lessons ]
https://www.youtube.com/@TransVoiceLessons/videos Channel link.
https://youtu.be/oWmj73Ttp4E Learn to hear size/resonance better
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fylIX28mlyY Practice advice
https://youtu.be/rvet1PwCoGY An ear training live stream
https://youtu.be/imdM3Cea4NA Voice surgery live stream
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHyVNIcw_XI some common myths
The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People
A 261 page book going over voice training. May be helpful to some. Link if you can't access it from the post.
Reaching Out For Help
After much consideration and fighting with my brain, I've decided that it's okay to ask for help in hard situations. So, I'm making this in hope that I receive at least a little bit of help. I'm asking for money, friends, and any advice you can give me. Everything counts and will help me during this rather terrible time. I'm Uni (name TBD) and I'm a 16 y/o transgirl unfortunately situated in the USA. You may know me as a regular on the Blahaj Matrix chats going by "Miss Universe".
So a little bit (a lot?) of backstory to sort of explain my current situation. My egg cracked October last year and it was both the best and worst thing that has happened in my life so far. Being a minor means that I can't really do anything about the fact that my egg cracked, I'm fully relying on the people around me to help me (which has failed). Put simply, as a minor I have absolutely no control over my body or my life, I have no money, no experience, and nowhere to go.
I came out to my mother and step-father (my parents are divorced) February this year, and while they seemed to be supportive at first they semi-recently turned on me and have been mostly unsupportive since then.
As for my father and step-mother, they are both actively transphobic republicans. I have no plans on coming out to them until after I turn 18, and it would be unsafe to do so before then.
Basically, as of now I have basically no support from anybody in my life and I'm completely trapped as my dysphoria gets worse with each passing day.
With my situation sort of explained(?), why am I actually here? Pretty much I'm here because I need money. Money for clothes, makeup, just stuff that can hopefully help me alleviate some of my dysphoria until I'm able to afford to do so myself (which as a minor is difficult). And also I suppose gas, in case it comes to it and I need to run away, even for a short period. I'm also looking for advice, I don't really know what to do and it would be really nice to have at least some semblance of what I could be doing right now.
I don't really know if any of that made sense, I'm bad at organizing my thoughts and even worse at asking for help. If you have any questions post them in the comments and I can probably answer them.
You can support me here on Buy Me a Coffee if you so wish, and/or with advice in the comments. Every donation counts.