Ah so when I log into lemmy.world account I see that feed instead of lemmy.ml and then when you aren't logged in you see all instances of lemmy.ml federation.
There will likely eventually be a way to migrate your account just like mastodon, however kbin is a different platform altogether and you would need a new account there.
I'm sure there are a lot of "previous state" saves it's missing to make a better experience. I always have to reset to Subscribe: New Comments for the best experience.
As far as I'm aware, the instance or platform you register in is the one you get as your hub, even if they are federated together with others.
I don't know if you can migrate your account between instances, but my recommendation might just be to register a new account with the instance you want to be your "home" instance.
you have to register in the website of the instance you want to use, then search it in the drop down menu (if you can't find it just type the domain name example: "lemme.ee") and insert your credentials
So can I log into Jerboa with my kbin.social account or not?
Edit: Turns out I can't. Jerboa seems pretty useless to me if I can't filter out the unwanted instances.