It's the first time that you are going to have sex with a guy. It's the first time you will be seeing his penis. Have you ever been startled by what it looked like?
It's the first time that you are going to have sex with a guy. It's the first time you will be seeing his penis. Have you ever been startled by what it looked like?
No, since I also have a penis.
Just because you have a penis doesn't rule out your seeing unusual penises
🤔 The most unusual was just a downward bend
Pretty much nothing but good experiences sadly!
Only once because their dick looked all fucked up; like it belonged on a chimpanzee and not a human. The skin was too smooth and shiny, the veins were all bulging and huge, and the head looked more like a flat headed mushroom that was way too big for the shaft.
I know my reaction embarrassed them, but c'mon man. What the hell is that?
LOL. I can't imagine what that looked like
Here are the average erect penis angles
In the figures below, if the penis pointed directly up, the measurement was 0 degrees, and if it was forward-pointing (horizontal), the measurement was 90 degrees:
0–30 degrees: 4.9% of participants 30–60 degrees: 29.6% of participants 60–85 degrees: 30.9% of participants 85–95 degrees: 9.9% of participants 95–120 degrees: 19.8% of participants 120–180 degrees 4.9% of participants
I'm older and experienced, and the first dozen guys I did (before first LTR) were so similar erect that I thought ALL guys were the same size hard, no matter how they looked soft.
Fast forward to the breakup - since then I've seen way more variety, swinger guys skew a little above average, and both my interim lover and now husband really were into seeing me take big hung guys, had to jump out of the lifestyle and thankfully husband is my ideal fit, now that I've had the different experiences and know enough to know.
Nobody has really shocked me size wise once I understood there were actually different sizes. Most really big guys I've seen in real life seem to have that down curve, which kinda makes sense.
really were into seeing me take big hung guys
Were any of the larger ones actually uncomfortable?
Length, yes. I don't like when guys are so long that you have to be careful, don't like careful sex. Too long and there is too much cervix banging.
Too thick? Not in the moment, no, there hasn't been anyone I couldn't enjoy once it got going. And I'm enough of a sexual masochist that if it hurts at first it turns me on, so it always worked out. But plenty I wouldn't have dated or been regular with, because I needed recovery time and I'm an everyday lady.
Well, you don't have to be having sex with a guy to see his cock. Don't even need that to see his hard cock.
You just have to enjoy or be willing to be present when men are going to be present, naked, and possibly aroused.
Which is a long way of saying that I rarely have had sex with men, I don't enjoy it. But I've seen a lot of cocks, aroused or otherwise.
I was a nurse for a long time, and I enjoy group sex and orgies, as well as group bdsm.
Yes, some of them can be quite surprising. All kinds of sizes, angles, and colors. They can bend into very unusual arcs as well.
There was a gentleman at a party that was fairly long, fairly narrow, but it bent three times, almost into an § shape, like a double S. He called it his literal trouser snake.
There's all kinds of colors that can surprise you until you learn that they can happen. Very bright blues and purples for sure, but also greens and oranges. It isn't going to be an all-over coloration most of the time; the majority is going to be shades of brown to pale colors. But I have seen a few cocks that were a dusky purplish blue on the shaft, building to blues and purples on the head. It's all about the combination of melanin and blood under the surface to make the light refract and reflect in interesting ways.
They can be very lumpy sometimes as well. Football (american type) shaped is not super rare, and having bulges is common enough that it ceases to be startling after a while.
There was a gentleman at a party that was fairly long, fairly narrow, but it bent three times, almost into an § shape, like a double S. He called it his literal trouser snake.
This guy was in that shape when he was hard?!
Yup.
He had had some kind of injury that left scarring and bent it like that
When the standard penis is erect is there also a standard (in degrees) of the angle of the erect cock?
Once. It was curved way more than like 45 degrees to his left. Wasn't a problem, he was a pretty good fuck, but it was a bit of a shock 😲
On several occassions the woman would say something about my girth. One actually didn't think that she could accomodate me.