There's like 3 dozen angles to why your shiksa wife and kids shouldn't be saying brachot. It's more of a fact based gish gallop than moving the goal posts.
And yes Rabbi's as the stewards of Judaism get to make the call what's authentically Jewish and what's not. That you're unaware of these basic tenets of your culture and heritage is pretty fucking weird.
As I said above, you're welcome to keep larp'ing as a Jewish family but you're just lying to yourself and others. You seem to be really offended by this fact, maybe seeking counsel from a rabbi would help you with your conflicted emotions.
That you think that's a bigoted term just reinforces your complete lack of understanding of your culture and the language that is at the root of it. Your wife and children are Gentiles, you're pretending they're Jewish. Shiksa is 100% the appropriate term, even if your parents used it derogatorily in your household.
Even if I'm insulting them with a bigoted term, based on this conversation it's fucking deserved LoL. People larp'ing as another religion as the lowest of the low.
I said she performed the prayer once. Because she's a folklorist. You also decided I have more than one child, which sure is news to me if it isn't a lie.
But hey, why not keep lying after you've told one lie, am I right? I'm pretty sure the god you foolishly believe in says lying is bad. It's somewhere in the Torah, right? Or did they take out Deuteronomy 19 and Leviticus 19?
Stop saying things that aren't true. Calling me a liar will not make the things you claim I said true. It also won't make you any less of a bigot.
You are still a bigot and still a liar and aren't even brave enough to admit it.
That is not what you claimed. You claimed my wife and children [of which I have one, not plural] are performing prayers. That is all a lie.
My wife did it one time many years ago before my one and only child was born. There is no guilt. I feel guilty for nothing. You, however, should feel guilty for violating Jewish law by lying over and over again.
You are still a liar and a bigot.
But sure, prove you aren't a liar. Tell me about the other children I have. Go for it. Name them all.
You said she performed the prayers. I said that's offsides, you started making up bullshit about Rabbi's not being authority on the basis of the religion. Her doing that is absolutely cultural appropriation and no matter how many times you reply or try to change your story, nothing's going to change that.
You're clearly an ignorant Jew. That's fine, but FFS stop making shit up and stop larp'ing as a Jewish family when you're CLEARLY not.
No lies here, just Truth you're scared to face. Like I said before, go talk to a rabbi and get some guidance cuz you're more lost than anyone who wandered the desert.