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[Unexpected Downtime Postmortem] Oct 6th
  • Downtime is better than data loss. It was the right decission to make.

  • To transfurs out there, would you want to turn into your fursona if it means turning to your preferred gender?
  • Gut reaction answer: yes, but it means I will hate summer due to having the fur. But being able to become that goofy girl full time without needing padding, that is a win for me.

  • What was your favorite Saturday Morning Cartoon?
  • My first choices would be Speed Racer and Star Blazers, but those were syndicated cartoons shown on weekdays after school. It is hard to remember any actual Saturday morning cartoon that I liked as much.

    I do not count Looney Toons since those were originally shown in theaters. And I am not counting the live action series that also were shown on Saturday morning.

    I guess Superfriends counts here since it was originally just on Saturday mornings for early seasons before going syndicated in later seasons.

  • To my fellow transfurs: are your fursonas also transgender?
  • That is very true. I assume that the person's (or funsona's) gender identity is in line with how they are presenting, at least when at a con. But there are plenty of people who do not do this, and I am making a bad asumption. I guess it was drilled into my head too much "use the pronouns for how the person is presenting, use they/them when unsure".

  • [MITIGATED - Service Outage] Internet Outage - July 2nd, 2023
  • Thanks for providing the alternate way to get notifications for when the service is down

  • 30+ or 35+
  • NO!! Greymuzzle should not start before 40 or 45. Below that is not old enough.

  • To my fellow transfurs: are your fursonas also transgender?
  • My fursona was never trans, but she does present androgenous a lot of time, mostly because I can't get the right feminine shape for her all of the time. Phantom is a partial suit, so there is no bodysuit to pad out. I have started using kigurami padding to get my shape better, so that is helping. So I guess my fursona is genderflux since the degree of her femininity is constantly changing based on what I have with me for presentation.

  • how do you all cope with gender dysphoria?
  • Currently I use small breast forms combined with loose shirts so they are not obvious. This was easier before I lost a lot of weight over the last four years, so I no longer have the big belly to make the forms look proportional. When home alone, I wear bigger forms all the time, which really helps.

    I have also started shaving my arms since the body hair is one of my dysphoria triggers. No one has said anything about my arms so far, so I plan to keep up with weekly shaves of them using a rotary razor. They do not need to be smooth, just not obviously covered by hair.

  • To my fellow trans furries: Did you have fursonas that matched your preferred gender before you found out you were trans?
  • My very first fursona was a male skunk who did cosplay. I didn't think much about it, I was creating a character for an online chat program. My egg had not fully cracked at the time, and I didn't use that fursona much (didn't really have time to use the chat program in the end).

    My next (current) fursona keeps alternating between female and genderfluid. I am still having problems getting her presentation right, and a lot of people I know see it as a male character when I am not using shape padding. I think once I can start presenting how I want to in mundane life, people will start seeing my fursona the way I want her to be perceived. It does not help that my head is not overly feminine, it is more toony nuetral, which is percieved as male by default. The best I may get for it is androgenous.

  • To trans furries out there, how much does being a furry relates to your gender?
  • For me, being furry and being trans were two different, separate things at first. As I discovered my inability to tolerate make-up, the ability to wear a fursuit head become really important for my gender presentation.

    I tried to do Animegao kigurumi at first, but it was not for me, I did not want to be an anime girl. Although some tricks I learned from it are helping me with body shaping for my furry presentation since I do partials instead of full suits.

    So in the end, being furry and being trans are separate for me, but being furry is helping me present better as trans.