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not_quite_erin @lemmynsfw.com
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Heading out for a coffee for the first time
  • Thanks!

    It went great, just rolled with trying my best to ngaf. My face is very clearly masc, I’m not doing anything other than a clean shave.

    I’m sure I clocked a few curious looks or double takes but that was expected. no one said anything or reacted in a nasty way.

    Pretty much the success I was hoping for myself mentally ☺️

  • feeling comfy when dressed
  • it is pretty awesome. but i also have the disappointment of having to change back at the end of the day. While my partner is aware of it, I’m not at the point of being “out” so similar to you it all goes away before the kiddo gets home.

    finding your moments to indulge/experiment/be comfortable is important.

  • I don’t know how to pose 😭
  • heh. thanks ☺️ I think doing some googling on posing will definitely help. That page is helpful, but um yeah… that site has some interesting biases. Though reading the FAQ I’m am somewhat “impressed” by the author’s honesty 😆

  • My favorite cage for a while now. I'd like to try metal to help me with longer-term wear
  • appreciate the thoughts and info. yeah, definitely to tight for more than a couple of hours of wear.

    I think I will just take the plunge on trying some stuff from cherrykeeper. i have a ring sizing set of theirs already. so it’s just time to go for it.

    i’ll probably share some stuff around here as i go. thanks heaps.

  • My favorite cage for a while now. I'd like to try metal to help me with longer-term wear
  • yeah, i’ve tried vaseline and other anti chafing creams. but i just seem to struggle with how much i pull in at times.

    Sounds like trying out cherry with a larger ring and the headlock feature you mention might be the best bet.

    i haven’t tried metal. didn’t want to spend that much money until i could get the sizing right first.

  • My favorite cage for a while now. I'd like to try metal to help me with longer-term wear
  • I wish I could get a full day wear, with all the standard cages i’ve tried the best i can get is a few hours before the ring rubbing becomes a problem.

    I’m sort of in a similar usage situation as you but with my own motivations. mostly look and feel.

    trying to justify the costs of the cherry keeper at the moment. i’m hoping their larger ring sizes will work without being loose and pointless.