ask for good health, stable passive income and the ability to see the consequence of my choices
men are not an unified front that plans things behind womens backs, similarly, some random woman you see on the street is not conspiring against you specifically
you should have a social codes for
- people your romantically interested in
- family
- everyone else
thats marginally less weird
monogamy and poligamy are both social contracts all participants must agree on, both are morally neutral
that dominance/submission thing i think its called power play, you can read about it if you want to, but its not a thing a majority of people will agree with you about it being necesary for relationships
maoism was cooked in the third world, reading about it and seeing how it turned out is a really convincing motive to follow it to the t, without adapting it to your current condition.
that and india being near china made maoism popular there
i once coommented something in toki pona and another user understood me