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Is my girlfriend gaslighting me? (Edit: No, she is not gaslighting me, but may have some other issues.)
  • People, it's not this black and white either.

    If you think issues in a relationship can be solved with logic/rationality only........ good luck!

    Having said that. Yup, she's got issues that go beyond "the usual."

    Edit: Downvoted by armchair relationship coaches.

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  • Think whatever you want. At this point I'm just repeating what I said in other comments.

    I find Futurama's Leela fuckable. She has a hot body. Jessica Rabbit too. Scarlet Johanson, Sharon Stone and Hally Berry as well. Don't get me started with the Westworld robots, or the porcelain ballerina figurines.

    My point is, of course I'm attracted to sexy women's hot bodies! And the cheetah was drawn with a woman's (read: human's) sexy body, so yes, I see it is attractive. Did you want to catch me in an "aha!" moment? I would be saying the same argument about "horny stuff" if the lady of "the lady and the tramp" was sucking a banana up and down "because she likes the feeling of bananas going in and out her mouth" - I'd find that sexual (though not attractive, as I'm only attracted to women.) That doesn't mean I have a furry fetish.

    Have you, truly, ever stepped outside and seen a womens figure? Are they just horny bait to you?

    Straw man.

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  • The only "sexy" character is a gazelle, in which being sexy is the point - not because it's furry, but because it's part of the story (they could have been humans, robots or books and it would have been the same - a sexy character must be conveyed as sexy somehow.)

    But nope, zootopia is not horny. I guess you're referring to Judy, who is a law enforcement officer and she looks fit. She doesn't look sexy, though, or "humanly sexy." That would be... gross, considering it's a children's movie.

  • Aww.
  • I've heard people say "omg chatgpt so stoopid, not the point of the Turing test" lately.

    To me, that's moving the goalpost.

    The Turing test is about fooling a human being into thinking he/she is interacting with another human being.

    Does this happen? Yes. 100%. Or at least almost 100% (because not everyone is fooled.)

    Now, the whole thing about chatgpt being stupid, etc, well.... that's another matter.

    Come up with another test. Name it the Goofy test, or whatever.

  • When did you completely fuck up your chance with someone?
  • You didn't fuck up.

    She fucked up.

    Surely you could blame it on your mom. But it was not your mom, or you. It was her.

    Ultimately it was her who decided to "honor" some stupid bullshit promise. She is an adult.

    If the love of my life shows up, and her parents say "promise us you will never date her," and she says "but I love you!" FUCK THE PARENTS. I'm marrying that woman. She didn't say "fuck Cheradenine's mom," welp, that's on her.

    Plus you did the right thing with the drunken part. I've been in your position. I don't take advantage of impaired people.

    I hope you're a happy individual nowadays.