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Would you go on a trip with your ex-partner and their former affair partner for your kid's sake?
  • This comment really just hits every nail on the head for me. It could be that the ex is feeling bad for what happened, but wants to divert the blame/bad feelings onto OP.

    It's also rich to me when the cheating partner is ready to "put all the bad blood behind them" as if they don't want to live in the stink of what they did any more. They're happy now, why can't you also be happy with them? Etc etc. As if they didn't blow up everyone's life with their choices.

  • I feel this way about cinnamon.
  • I know the Japanese will dead ass put apple and raisins in some variations of their curry. Apple is pretty good, adds a sweetness that isn't overbearing. Raisins, though I will never understand.

  • Movie Fact
  • Sorry, I guess I don't get the joke and what it has to do with this topic? Sorry again, I'm sure it's really obvious, and I'm still just too fucked up about the election results to really joke about it yet

  • Funny but it's not funny.
  • I don't think that's a crazy choice. I kinda wish I had had my tubes tied like many of my friends did when Roe was overturned. But then I wouldn't have my wonderful baby son. It's hard.

  • Funny but it's not funny.
  • It's truly awful. I can't look anyone in their eyes. All I can think about are how many of them voted my rights away by electing Trump again. I've never felt so isolated and desperate. I'm in a red state that outvoted Democrats 2:1, so it's extra bad.

    I'm feeling like I never want to participate in community things around here ever again. No handing out candy, no helping neighbors shovel their snow, no making friends without asking who they fucking voted for. Hell, I don't even want to travel to see my R-voter relatives for the holidays. I'm putting all visits on hold, which is gonna really piss them of, because this is the first grandkid's (our son) first holidays.

    To be honest, I'm feeling sick for even choosing to have him despite my better judgment, which is the worst feeling to have while looking at your baby. It was in a period of hope that maybe we'd be able to overcome that orange fucker's influence, but now look where we are. I feel like I've sentenced him to a fate worse than death to have brought him into this world at this time in this country. Especially with the climate certainly being extra fucked now.

    FUCK THIS.

  • Girl Talk
  • Erase the last thought bubble and replace it with "It was nice to run into her, she's so sweet," and you'll have something a bit more realistic and less incel-y lmao.

    Women do actually like each other 🙄

  • What are your best tips for falling asleep?
  • For me, podcasts specifically about going to sleep to them trigger my contrariness too much to be actually relaxing. It's gotta be on a normal topic that is just the right balance of interesting, but not exiting/engaging.

    History typically scratches that itch for me. Dan Carlin's hardcore history and the history of the English being the two goats that coke immediately to mind. Camp Monsters is also a great one; the rare fiction podcast that I can actually stand, much less relaxes me enough to sleep.

  • My son is due in a month or so, and I just finished the hat he'll wear home from the hospital!

    The pattern is this one! https://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/baby-bear-hat-8

    I made some adjustments, like starting with 8 rows of ribbing, then doing two kfb increases in row 9, before doing the rest of the pattern as described. I also picked up 10 stitches instead of 8 for the the ears, because of personal preference.

    I was able to finish it in one evening, and I'm thinking of making another for his cousin that will be born just two months after him :)

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