StashDB is a huge metadata database that links information about porn scenes to hashes of the file. Integrates very well with the Stash porn organizer app.
https://guidelines.stashdb.org/docs/faq_getting-started/stashdb/
Your best option is undoubtably going to be to skip tube sites and either (1) buy a subscription to a studio that publishes VR content, or (2) sail the high seas 🏴☠️
That still should have been communicated to the mods of those communities, rather than just banning with no notice.
I'm surprised that all the scat communities were banned as NSFL without any warning or discussion here. What's up with that?
For English language JAV reviews, the ZENRA blog is likely your best option.
For general JAV discussion, the ScanLover forum is great - you'd likely get a good discussion going about specifics of acting & story.
For non-JAV discussion and reviews, AdultDVDTalk has been the best I've found, but the bar is very low. The mods are pretty aggressive about enforcing their rules to the point that I've always just lurked rather than participate.
Honestly - my dream setup for this is integrating a scene database like StashDB with a voting-based discussion system like Lemmy. I'm not aware of anything that allows such modular discussion of scene, performer, studio, tag, etc.
~resists urge to take on another project~
I hadn't considered looking at secondhand headsets and honestly the prices in my area are very compelling ($150-250).
Do the foam parts on the face get gross? Do you recommend replacing that if I get a used one?
That's really cool, I assume that's different than HSA/FSA money?
There's a lot of JAV fetish work being released in VR. It's a little annoying to acquire, as most of it isn't getting uploaded to the usual sites, but it is available to purchase via DMM (requires Japan VPN & buying DMM points (gift card) via amazon.jp, as foreign credit cards aren't accepted).
https://www.dmm.co.jp/digital/videoa/-/list/=/article=keyword/id=6793/
Even as NSFW subs become unavailable via API at the end of the month?
Unlimited storage on My Drive is dead but Team Drives still don't have an enforced storage limit.
I'm aware that the days are numbered but plan to keep milking it until then. 180 TB and growing, I'll have to either get rid of some unwanted content or spend a ton of money on hard drives.
I think OPs lines are good general guidelines for appropriate conversation about sex with people other than your partner.
I was more lax about sharing details about hookups in my younger years before meeting my SO. It felt much less weird to brag to friends about those details when it was a random one night stand or Tinder hookup who they'll never meet, vs. my partner who they'll regularly see and interact with.
Do you use the Oculus for non-NSFW stuff too? That's been the one I keep looking at as an intermediary headset, but still need some WAF justification for dropping $350 on one besides just watching porn.
The advanced setup sounds really incredible. Would something like that be available on the Oculus? I have a Tempest OSR2 that I'd love to use more.
My experience has been that strokers are more or less all the same. Look for an orifice and texture that seems appealing to you and give it a shot.
Fleshlights are nice, but not worth the money unless you're diving deep into getting accessories. Definitely not necessary for your first one.
I have only used Google Cardboard style headsets, and thought it was an interesting novelty. I will occasionally pull it out for use when I know I'll have some uninterrupted time home alone. The low resolution and the annoyances with staying centered prevent me from using it more often.
I have been wanting to get a nicer VR setup for some time, but feel that the technology is still rapidly evolving and don't want to waste money on something that'll be obsolete in a year or two.
Apple Vision Pro looks really interesting, but out of my budget. Would probably be something I'd consider buying when a cheaper consumer grade model becomes available.
Unlimited Google Drive, connected to server via rclone, holds the bulk of my collection. Some favorites are held locally on a Unraid server.
If you connect it to a stash-box instance, like StashDB, it will automatically label and tag most of your library using hashes.