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buttonmash @lemmy.world
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It is literally impossible to be a "good" nonbinary person
  • It's very noble to give someone the benefit of the doubt and support them despite the wrongs they've done or are currently doing. I applaud you for the amount of compassion you must have.

    However, I think everyone should have the choice on whether they want to be supportive towards someone, as the emotional energy required for that is a very limited resource, especially in us mentally ill and neurodivergent folks.

    My criteria for having that choice are not met when people either don't have the full story, or are pressured into compassion due to being confronted with an issue they are particularly empathetic towards or have experienced themselves. Both of these issues are at play here, which is why I feel it's manipulative.

    I know getting sympathy and support feels good, but chronically farming it off of people who feel an internal pressure of providing it really bothers me, as it does not feel like full informed consent can be secured.

  • It is literally impossible to be a "good" nonbinary person
  • Okay so:

    • You made a post crying transphobia about that mod for banning you from their communities

    • The targeted harassment of the mod started right after they replied to your post about them, dispersing your points in a reasonable manner

    • The harassment account was crying plenty of transphobia too, just as you do all the time

    • In the same breath, they were both misgendering the mod and calling them a "cissy"

    • The "homophobia" (mentions of sucking dick) was disproved on the other post when a user posted a screenshot of your sock account also saying they'd suck dick (weird how the sock account doubles down on homophobia right after that, pretty convenient that you'd use that as an excuse)

    • You are known to make sock accounts like [email protected] that only reply to aggressively defend you

    • What's with the obsession with dragons? Like no one even thinks about dragons that much whether they love or hate them. Going either way as a specific character trait is incredibly telling

    • You have already had posts removed on this accounts for encouraging both murder and suicide, just like the sock account did

    • You have already had posts removed on this account for misgendering people just to spite them, just like the sock account did

    TLDR: It's incredibly unlikely that it wasn't you.

  • It's vitally important that we restrict the rights of trans people in order to protect them from transphobic trolls /s
  • OP got pissy that people refused to jump through hoops for their neopronouns that involve replacing the word "you" when talking to them, then created an alt account to harass and send death threats to a specific mod who banned them for making every thread they participate in about themselves.