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bakachu @lemm.ee
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FTC judge rules Intuit broke law, must stop advertising TurboTax as “free”
  • Agree, would rather my money went to a local firm with an actual person who I can consistently contact for questions. Did this a few years ago for an especially challenging tax year. Absolutely 0 regrets - if I had done it via self-serve software I would've missed out on quite a few unknown tax assists that the accountant found.

  • FTC judge rules Intuit broke law, must stop advertising TurboTax as “free”
  • I use TurboTax ina free way - calculate all my taxes using their amazing software and then when the numbers match on the free site, I file there. That's the beauty of TurboTax that you can exploit. I feel it's fair game knowing they make the software open and then trick people who have calculated everything out to pay a ridiculous amount for the filing fee at the end.

  • Based.cooking – Cooking recipes website without bloat and bullshit, straight to the point.
  • Amazing, and with pictures even for some! Seems to be a fair amount of ethnic dishes. This may be controversial but the only thing missing is an option for feedback. Sometimes a recipe attempter on the bloat sites will find something off (too much salt) and offer their thoughts. I do like checking comments out before trying something as a recipe failure has a little more financial cost nowadays.

    Definitely bookmarking though and seeing how I can support.

  • Prison Labor Is Slave Labor and the Constitution Says That’s Fine
  • I read somewhere that the US has one of the largest, if not THE largest, percentage of population incarcerated. I feel like there's overall more people who know someone, at least some distant relative, who served time than not, so it's shocking to see such a large outcry on even super liberal social media sites, like reddit, for prisoners to get raped, assaulted, killed and/or generally mistreated. So that empathy may be a long ways away.

  • [Edit: He has now passed away] - Smash Mouth singer Steve Harwell in hospice for liver failure
  • Not sure if this is your intent but your comment might be coming off the same as, "Why don't you just stop being sad?" To people suffering from depression. Mental disorders and addictions are legitimate diseases and can be extremely complex to diagnose and treat. It's really unfortunate that Steve Harwell died under those circumstances. His music brought joy to a lot of people.

  • [Edit: He has now passed away] - Smash Mouth singer Steve Harwell in hospice for liver failure
  • I've seen a video or two of that. I had also heard that people would attend his concerts to see him go off the rails. It's so unfortunate he hated the song that brought him so much success. I know a lot of people think its been overplayed, but It's just a fun, catchy, light-hearted song.

  • Workers of the world unite! Happy Labor Day!
  • Nice to see you made the most of the holiday. Celebrated similarly by laboring a 12-hour day! No music like you though - just labor. The entire day I wondered why I don't celebrate Labor Day in the purest fashion more often.

  • How is the division of labor going in your households?
  • I hope you are doing ok. If you are in my old situation, know that you aren't alone.

    I'm casually observing a lot of this with friends. Met a very accomplished lady recently who shifted from working in the investment banking sector into getting her licensing and a private practice to be a therapist. She worked her ass off with education and multiple part-time jobs to get her to where she's at. Shockingly, she is a mommy-wife to a guy who doesn't want to commit to marriage.

  • Does anyone have any good links to charity or donation sites for our Maui folks?

    Any local folks know what's needed out there and where to go? I want to help but also times like this is when sometimes scams pop up.

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    Fairfax County to Pilot Use of Electric Buses and Trucks with a State Grant
  • I like this, esp when looking at some of the fuel and cost savings:

    4 × electric busses: approximately 32,000 gallons of diesel fuel on an annual basis

    4 × electric waste disposal trucks: 78% in fuel and maintenance costs

    1 × electric box/transport truck: 64% in fuel costs

    Hopefully this leads to less in property taxes soon amirite guys 🤣? (I know that's a whole nother issue. I'm still down for this pilot).

  • Please help me breakup with obsessed neighbor
  • This may be overly cautious, but I recommend making a log and gathering evidence for if/when this escalates further. Keep in mind that at 17 she is still a minor, so there is an additional burden of responsibility that is imposed upon you and your partner in every interaction you have with her. Get dates, times, and statements from your brother and partner on the 2 occasions she entered your home and slept over, in particular. The last thing you want to deal with is a false accusation from this kid who does not seem to regard nor respect your boundaries, which you have set clear at this point. Get security cameras. Document everything ongoing. I personally wouldn't block her texts for now.

    Next step is to inform her legal guardians, in this case her parents, that she is not welcome on your property nor to contact you or your partner. I would do it in some form of writing - email or text, again for the sake of evidence. At this point the responsibility for her actions shifts to them. If she is on your doorstep contact them directly and expect immediate action. You can also inform them that you have concerns over her mental health.

    Once these are done, you have real actionable choices that you can take. I know it sucks having to feel like a bad guy in this scenario, but it sounds like she needs professional help. Her parents are the ones to blame here.

  • A small price to pay

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    Well are you?

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    askwomen @lemm.ee bakachu @lemm.ee

    How is the division of labor going in your households?

    Got out of my last relationship for this reason (amongst other things). I was the everything person - cook, accountant, maid, landscaper, scheduler, fun planner, etc. It didn't start that way of course - just little acts of service out of love that became the expectation over time. Are things more equitable in your relationships, or are there any women who are where I was at? I'm still scratching my head wondering if I bear some of the blame for setting myself up that way and trying to get some good perspective for the next one!

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