I find her posts are utter nonsense. She thinks she is interesting but shows off how education and curiosity has failed her. She has followers and crap to sell. Thats it. My friends have more interesting lives and observations and they aren’t on social media speaking/selling to the masses.
It’s an insult knowing intelligent women subscribe and listen to BP (and not just her… all these women like Jilly and Kaitlyn) who are narcissists using their female audience to swindle goods to and speak rubbish.
I find her posts are utter nonsense. She thinks she is interesting but shows off how education and curiosity has failed her. She has followers and crap to sell. Thats it. My friends have more interesting lives and observations and they aren't on social media speaking/selling to the masses.
It's an insult knowing intelligent women subscribe and listen to BP (and not just her... all these women like Jilly and Kaitlyn) who are narcissists using their female audience to swindle goods to and speak rubbish.
I had a friend like this. She was a stay at home wife and sent me constant texts about her "hardships" and how "life wasn't fair" .. ie. "fack my life, my prescription isn't at the pharmacist yet and I have to wait" and I would be like "ummmmm okay". Some people can not handle much, their brains are not equipped. BP seems the same.
Sooooo body obsessed. Not healthy mentally at all, its the opposite but she is supposed to be a positive role model??? I really don't get it.
Going into another summer looking like this...
…only you don’t look like "this". Edges of body, especially legs are so blurred and warped. Assuming most influencers having high res phone cameras — most her body videos seem to be low res. (for a reason)
I’ve experienced more body shaming
In her own words....
I’ve experienced more body shaming in this last week than I have in my entire life.
But the truth is - it’s happened for me at every weight and size and it’s been relentless in my entire existence starting when I was on a playground.
What’s the point of body shaming? No really. What is it? To keep us feeling small, playing small? Too much, never enough?
I have a unique perspective. I’ve put my body through hell to be a size 0 and I was miserable, unhealthy, crumbling. But I would have done anything to escape the body shaming I received at a larger size. But guess what? It still happened. And guess what? Most of it came from within. So when they tell me how not enough I am, I remember what it felt like to live small to be small.
When I shared the video of my walk and I said in the caption that I knew it would receive negativity but it mattered more to me that we showed up for our ONE FREAKING LIFE, I meant it.
These negative commenters are not the ones that need us. They’re not our kids or our partners or our memories. They’re not US.
So I’m sharing with you some of the messages that are the kind we focus on, the ones we give our energy to.
Because while I have this one life to live, We also have only so much energy to give. And I believe we are collectively better when we choose to not just give kindness but receive it louder than the rest.
There will be many in this life that won’t like you. Don’t be one of them.
So cheers to us, exactly right now.
Photos by my friend and inspiration @huntermcgrady