I like to put on a long 8-hour rain sounds video and also make a nice cup of tea if I'm feeling cozy. Otherwise, I'll generally put on a video game stream that I don't need to pay a ton of attention to.

I'd contact that local ag extension in your area. They often offer free beginners classes online or in person.

As a newbie here, I don't expect the server to run perfectly all the time, and growing pains are normal. Take your time! I'm glad to have a little place to hangout in the meanwhile.