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What helped you the most while going through a break up?
  • It sounds crass, but there is good science behind attachment and neural connections in your brain: have sex with someone new if you want to get over someone else. Your brain will pretty quickly begin to detach from your last partner.

    Just also know that (aside from actual sociopaths) almost everyone starts to catch feelings for a new sexual partner after you've had sex three times. Obviously don't let it get that far if you don't want to get attached to that new partner.

    I think this is why so many people look for rebound relationships whether or not they're aware of the neural connections changing. It feels better to start moving on even if that new relationship is completely superficial.

    I only put this to the test one time before I met my wife, but I think it helped me move on from an abusive relationship.

  • Reddit's response about the actions they took against the subreddits (note: r/mildly interesting DID NOT encourage nsfw content and their suspensions and removal have been revoked by a diff admin)
  • The quality of the test environment isn't guaranteed though. I ran a production system that had a shell of a "test" environment with no data from prod. I repeatedly told the vendor testing in their "test" environment was worthless because without the prod data I had no real way to recreate so many of the situations that naturally came up for my users in the production software. The vendor refused to correct the problem, so I told them - with all the relevant managers present - to stop asking me to waste my time testing new releases when doing so was effectively useless.

  • Reddit's response about the actions they took against the subreddits (note: r/mildly interesting DID NOT encourage nsfw content and their suspensions and removal have been revoked by a diff admin)
  • I'd say it's kinda like having a "10-second" car that everyone loves and wants, but then you start ripping out some of the best performance parts and installing inferior parts in their place.

    Does the car still run? It does. Is it slowly imploding because you've upset the engine's balance to the point where it's becoming dysfunctional? Also yes.

    It's only a matter of time before the pretty paint job no longer hides the garbage under the hood.

  • Most / Least Favorite Tropes
  • I recently read the first Foundation novel as well as most of the second. Asimov was clearly not envisioning a more egalitarian future when he wrote about housewives destabilizing society when their appliances break and they can't get them fixed or replaced.

    I honestly lost a lot of interest in continuing the series just because of that, but I also couldn't get attached to any of the characters since it zips around in history so quickly. I get that civilization itself is supposed to be a "character" of sorts, but that just doesn't appeal to me.

    I did like the first season of the show, however.

  • Young People Have No Idea What We Used to Do After Work. Let Me Regale You.
  • I have a friend who tried to get me to join him and his online buddies on every new big multiplayer game. Out of the literally dozens he recommended to me, I bought maybe two, and those two have a great single player campaign.

    I've always preferred single player games, and I feel like I don't waste money like I would on whatever the current hot MMO is. MMOs go stale or the community changes, and then you will probably never play it again. Single player games just largely don't go that way and are repayable.

  • Young People Have No Idea What We Used to Do After Work. Let Me Regale You.
  • In the USA, work culture means losing rights. Those of us that have pushed back against illegal behavior in the workplace are pretty quickly blackballed.

    Trust me, we know workers have more rights in Europe. There's little-to-nothing we can do to enact those sorts of protections here. The rich have us by the throat.

  • Audio cutting out when docked
  • IIRC it's a bug not specific to the Steam Deck, but something to do with the way Linux is handling audio. So the fix then is harder to get implemented since it isn't confined to code that Valve controls. Valve has to wait for the problem to be fixed in the greater Linuxosphere first, but I'm sure they're assisting with it.

  • The potential role of a 3rd servers to mediate between Beehaw and Lemmy.world
  • I very much agree with giving source instances a chance to discipline/ban bad actors. Hopefully this will evolve in that direction. For now the Beehaw admins feel that the right mod tools are not yet available. They have a specific vision for what they want to build, and it is completely up to them how they go about that.

    That doesn't mean everyone external has to agree or like their decisions, but it's their house, their rules.

  • The potential role of a 3rd servers to mediate between Beehaw and Lemmy.world
  • Several of the politically conservative subs would do that to redditors who commented in other subs with opposing ideologies. You didn't even have to comment in the conservative subs to get a ban.

    And as petty as I think that is, I still think it is their right to run an unchallenged echo chamber with completely homogeneous opinions. Similarly Lemmy instances are free to federate or defederate as they see fit.