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DrainKikoLake @lemmy.ca
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Let me see your blankets!
  • Making squares into a blanket is a great way to do it :) And the squares themselves can be very satisfying just because they go from casting on to finished so quickly. It's nice to have something that works up fast, especially if you've got bigger things also on the go.

    Here's a close-up of part of the underside:

    And you can see a little more detail here (the flowers are the centre parts of big squares for the border that I'm working on adding):

  • So I fell in love with a shawl design
  • Just three stitches! Well, technically, four, but the last one is just a very simple variation on double crochet (going around the post instead of on top of the stitch).

    I've done it in a couple of different yarn weights & blends and it's a very forgiving pattern as long as your hook is suitable to the yarn. I recommend a single-colour yarn or one with a very long gradient to show off the stitching; shorter gradients will look a bit mottled.

    Here's the first one I did, in a 2-weight 100% cotton:

    And a rectangular version in progress which is 100% merino and probably about a 4-weight:

  • Non-sufficient funds fee will be limited to $10 in Canada starting next year

    Banks will also be prohibited from charging NSF fees more than once within a period of two business days and in cases where the overdraft is less than $10.

    To avoid bank account holders accidentally incurring an NSF charge, banks will also have to send an alert giving account holders at least three-hours' notice that a payment exceeds their bank balance. If the account holder deposits money to cover the payment within that period, banks cannot charge the fee.

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    Are old people usually attracted to other old people?
  • Aw dude, no, flip it around: I can't imagine having a sexual relationship with someone I'm not romantically entwined with. Real intimacy is about so much more than sex -- sex is part of it, but it's also about trust and openness and what you've lived through together... It's a whole package and you're focusing on one small aspect & not even looking at the rest.

    I've been married 13 years. We're aging. I birthed three kids and my stomach looks bizarre now. We've got grey hair, we've both had a variety of body shapes and sizes over the years... our love has only grown and the sex has never been better. Don't take your friend's anecdote as something that happens to everyone. It doesn't. (You should talk to someone who works in a senior's home sometime; people our grandparents' age are still sexually active despite being pretty far from the bloom of youth!)

    I agree with a lot of the other commenters that people in their 20s are nice to look and and can be fun to talk to but also seem like children to me at this point. I couldn't even imagine pursuing someone so much younger than me; mentally and in terms of experience we're way too far apart.

    Ps. Don't look at who you're most physically attracted to & assume everyone feels the same way. I've always thought that men hit their peak around age 55.

  • Crochet @lemmy.ca DrainKikoLake @lemmy.ca

    Let me see your blankets!

    This is my most ambitious project to date, the Faith CAL by Helen Shrimpton (with a few modifications).

    What big or small blankets are you working on?

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    anyone else like to crochet?
  • I'm currently working on an afghan for our queen bed. It's mostly finished -- it's 5x5 feet right now so big enough to use -- but I'm working on cranking out the border. That's going to be 24 12x12" squares that will be sewn round the edges for a final size of 7x7 feet! Wish me luck haha.

  • What podcast(s) do you recommend?
  • The Rest is History (history podcast with both mini-series... serieses... series... and one-off episodes)

    Clear Eyes Full Hearts (Friday Night Lights rewatch)

    The Line (Canadian politics -- there are a number of podcasts with this or a similar name, so you're looking for the one by Jen Gerson and Matt Gurney)

    Stories Podcast (short stories for children; my kids like this a lot for road trips)

    Old Books with Grace (old/very old book talk with a medievalist)

  • What are the best public domain books you've read?
  • I started consciously trying to read more old books in the last year or two and I've discovered that I love adventure stories! Jules Verne, Sir Walter Scott's Waverly novels... Winston Churchill's "My Early Life" is nonfiction that might as well be an adventure story, haha.

    For humour it's hard to go wrong with P G Wodehouse; he wrote much more than just the Jeeves stories.

    Recently I read through all of Lucy Maud Montgomery's collected short stories (the author of Anne of Green Gables among many others).

    Dracula was a great read and genuinely spooky, ditto Henry James's The Turn of the Screw.

    Sometimes I go to Project Gutenberg, hit "random" and download anything that catches my eye :)

  • So I fell in love with a shawl design
  • Can I suggest an alternate as you work up to this? The Klaziena Shawl is a free, beautiful pattern that looks far more complex than it actually is: https://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/klaziena-shawl

    There are really only three stitches to worry about (chain, single crochet, double crochet), the pattern is extremely clear, and it has both written instructions and a chart. This could give you great practice reading charts as well as with general shawl construction. (I've made it four or five times now!)

  • Let's stop playing around and talk about ditching something big: Visa and Mastercard
  • The other major advantage of credit cards is consumer protection. Generally speaking you can't file a dispute or do a charge back on a debit transaction -- or at least it's very difficult and time-consuming. Credit cards offer a certain amount of peace-of-mind when it comes to things like fraudulent transactions.

  • Canada's oldest company, put into liquidation by American hedge fund
  • She said another problem the company ran into in recent years was that its stores’ hours didn’t always align with that of the malls where they are located.

    That's the case where I live: the mall opens at 10, but the Bay doesn't open until 11.

    I've also found it hard to identify their target audience. With women's clothes, for example, they have a ton of stuff that says "hi, I'm 21" and a ton of stuff that says "hi, I'm 75" and... not really a lot in between. It's pretty confusing.