I stopped washing everyday and my scalp thanks me for it. I was my hair about every 5 to 7 days

Me too, I usually wash it only on Sundays...but sometimes it just feels like a big chore, it's so much effort...

Probably because I don't know how to dry it effectively...maybe I need to watch a tutorial?

do make sure to put some oil in it once it's dry though.

me too, I put oil every once in a while and brush them everyday to keep it nice. I have fairly long hair now (3+ years growing!)

Headbands and scrunchies are your friend!

confirm!

Also milestones worth celebrating (say, with a beer or smoothie or banana split):

• Hair in the eyes ✔️
• Hair in the mouth ✔️
• Hair down the throat ✔️
• Hair at the shoulders ✔️
• Using an entire Costco bottle of fancy conditioner every month ✔️

I guess I have to catch up with my celebrations, yeah!

I'd also add

• I am going to shower but I'm not washing my hear because it takes too much time to wash and then to dry!

as long as it’s not me, lol

same sis

Wow! Infrastructure surely is complicated! Thank you for doing this amazing work for us ❤️

Often, a lot of trans girls early in their journey of self ownership hesitate to use the label lesbian for themselves, because imposter syndrome is hard to overcome.

It truly is! Even though I know all this I still struggle telling girls that I'm lesbian. But when I do and they're understanding (99.9% of the time?) I feel happy and validated.

But nonetheless I still have my imposter syndrome :(

i love it 🏳️‍⚧️ 😍♥️♥️

i even forget photos exist.

i never take pictures. not only pictures of myself but even pictures about things I like.

I was so badly hurt by pictures that I don't like them at all!

If needed I can provide proof of ownership of my reddit account in which I've been a somewhat active member of trans and lgbtqia+ communities :)

If my help is needed, I will do my best for this community

Do you want to be trans?

If the answer to that question is not a very easy "absolutely not" then you probably are.
If the answer to that question is a very easy "absolutely not" the result is indeterminate.

but you can’t figure out why

yeah that's the thing! I've always hated going to the beach since puberty (but went nonetheless) and I really didn't know why. Now I know and everything makes sense!

It's still a rule on this community: only memes should be allowed and this is not a meme (emphasis mine)

4. No personal-life posts, bingo cards, quizzes, selfies, “trans/not trans” lists, picrew, or non-memes.

if needed I can do it (I think?)

I really loved both jokes, I think you have a great sense of humour

I'm glad it's back 😍

an upset expression from a 6'2" person is somewhat more affective

I giggled (and I'm sorry you hate your body, I understand your feelings, can't do much about it except offering you hugs ♥️)! I doubt that would work for me as I'm literally the opposite of a strong person sooo nobody would get scared lol 😂

for example? what would you say?

Yeah I understand that feeling... there are very few pictures of me as well since middle school and I hate every single one of them! My family for some reason likes them so you can find them on the walls sometimes and I cringe every time!

🤣

Side note, I'm reasonably sure this is why my cat at the time suddenly became more affectionate, he didn't really like men so when I stopped smelling like one he stopped perceiving me that way. This was well before any visible changes occurred.

wow this is really mind-blowing! and I'm super happy that your cat sees you as a woman ♥️ please tell your cat that alice said hi and cuddle them for me ♥️

Just in case, you know, a Witch happens to curse me and transform me into %(another gender)! I'm totally cis I swear!!!

i really hope that will happen to me as well :) but I guess I just don't like taking pictures in general so I don't expect much to change in that respect 🤣