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MaybeALittleBitWeird @lemmynsfw.com

31M, Bi, kinky, goofy, and a little queer. I'm just here to look at naked people being sexy and having fun - please don't message me unless you'd like to have a legitimate conversation.

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Are there worthwhile NSFW subs on other instances?
  • I'm sure there are still a handful of NSFW communities on lemmy.world but I never saw them last very long or remain active. All the one's I was aware of don't exist any longer.

    I disabled NSFW on my general accounts a few months back because I got tired of seeing the spammers I blocked over here all the time so I can't help too much for anything new that's cropped up.

  • Are there worthwhile NSFW subs on other instances?
  • That bot exclusively posts communities that are trending on this instance and doesn't really answer OP's question.

    Lemmyf.uk - I generally have only seen consistent nsfw content from the [email protected] and [email protected] (the latter community kind of died in favor of c/gonewild here though)

    Pornlemmy was competing with lemmynsfw during the Reddit exodus, but failed to get a decent user base and it looks like they shut the instance down as far as I can tell.

    Yiffit.net - An instance devoted to furry NSFW. The active users are kind of small bunch at this point and the sole admin kind of disappeared because of life circumstances, but it's still online.

  • How do you find boys?
  • People go to these meetings just to play pool, and they act like the sex drive has been sucked out of them by some kind of alien parasite.

    The point of a munch is to be a completely non-sexually, non-kink, social event. They're also used by more underground groups to vet members and this is a fairly normal experience.

    Tops act like bottoms, bottoms act like tops, everyone either has kids or is some kind of little.

    If you're looking for a high protocol master/slave situation, you're not going to find it organically in a local scene. It honestly sounds a bit more like your attitude here might be stopping you from possibly getting to know people because this comes off as very aloof and judgemental. Not everyone fits nearly into a box, as I'm sure you can attest to.

    I get you on the 🐻 though, they aren't for me either. I just don't like hairy men mostly 🤷

  • How do you find boys?
  • This is a common problem for anyone living the rural small town life. Just finding kink friendly partners is going to be difficult without adding on another minority preference (not being cishet). The two combined is going to leave you with a pretty limited dating pool. Hell, depending on how small town we're talking here normal cishet dating can be difficult. I'm in a medium sized city and even the kink scene is still pretty small and mostly couples looking for thirds...

    The reality is that if you're probably going to have to come to terms with the fact that if you want these needs met you're going to have to travel, either temporarily or on a more permanent basis. If moving isn't an option maybe make yourself open to LDR relationships with occasional travel for meetups. Fet and Reddit used to be decent for finding things like these even if they kind of suck nowadays.