Popping the question for a threesome need advice!

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/IceColdEyes36 on 2023-06-27 21:54:06+00:00.

I came across a friends profile on a threesome finder app. I brought it up to her but not yet to her boyfriend who is also on the app. I hung out with her and we talked about it and she gave me his number to text him.

Me and him have been texting for a couple days. I’ve known the couple for awhile. (I’m more comfortable talking to his girlfriend.)

Should I wait and get to know him more and possibly hang out with only him and see how we click or be direct about it as I was with his girlfriend over text. I’m a guy also btw and I think it would be better for me to bring it up first than his girlfriend

-How should I bring it up with him?