Stigma or actual health risk with dating bisexual men
Stigma or actual health risk with dating bisexual men
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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/owlbrat on 2023-06-27 19:58:41+00:00.
I’m still kind of gathering my feelings about the situation but I was hoping I could get some viewpoints about it first.
Recently me and the guy I am in a situation with were “accosted “ by on of his friends over this so it was on my mind today.
Basically me and this guy I have had a quiet relationship for sometime now and its great but when his friends found out about me , shit kinda hit the fan and his friends main point were
( you can be bi but don’t go back and forth )
I think this has to do with the fact that I am not the only “ situation” he is in
I was mostly wondering have any ladies actually felt this was more than a stigma and have you ever had anything health related come up because of it ?
... If the friend meant you can't put the dick in an ass and then directly in a vagina, that's a legitimate concern, you can get infections from that. At least change the condom.
Otherwise... is the friend being bi/homophobic? Dating a girl doesn't make a bi man less bi. Gay men can also have safe sex, so I don't get how his sexuality has anything to do with this. If you have any concerns, you should talk to the man you're seeing. You deserve to know since your body is also involved.