Painful sex due to lack of lubrication and wondering if he knew and kept going anyway

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/No_Tea8846 on 2023-06-27 19:49:31+00:00.

Last night after some making out and fondling, my fwb pulled me on top to ride him. It was uncomfortable but that didn’t surprise me because we haven’t had sex in a while and I haven’t been sleeping with anyone else. I eventually rolled over so he could get on top but once he started entering me it got worse. He had pulled his fingers out of me right before this and I really didn’t think it was a lubrication issue at the time. But later when I got home, I realized I was spotting blood and now I am almost positive it’s from not being properly lubricated. It sounds crazy that I wouldn’t have known this when it was happening but again, I felt fine with his fingers inside me then we went straight to PIV so there was never a moment that it didn’t feel right. I was already expecting some soreness because it had been so long so that’s truly what I thought until I saw blood. The part that is bothering me is that it seems like HE would have noticed while inside of me and realized I needed more attention before continuing. We were not using protection (both tested, no other partners and I’m on BC). I trust him and don’t feel like he did anything out of line bc I wanted it and didn’t speak up about my discomfort, but I feel like he had to know because he would have been able to feel what was going on inside of me. I guess I’m just wanting someone to chime in and tell me I’m wrong and that he wouldn’t have noticed so I can have peace of mind. I don’t want to think he would have intentionally kept going with painful sex.

If it matters: I am 24f and he is 33m. I’m far more inexperienced than him.