Solo orgasam doesn't feel as good anymore

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/alt5questions5 on 2023-06-27 19:08:57+00:00.

Been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. Our sex life has gotten less frequent but when it happens it's enjoyable. I love coming with him inside me, sometimes even just fingers or just on his face, stomach etc., and yes I touch myself to orgasm or at least to just finish me off in the end in all scenarios.

Overall sex is great, when it happens, except it doesn't happen as much as I want it to anymore so I thought maybe solo orgasams would take the edge off.

Here comes the kicker, I get cozy, open up some porn I like, get wet, touch myself and for the big finale that I was hoping for never comes. I don't mean that I don't orgasm because I do, I can feel it, I can feel the movement the twitch etc., but it doesn't feel satisfying anymore. It barely feels like anything. What happened to me? Why don't I enjoy orgasming by myself anymore? How do I fix this?