If you’re someone with low libido what helps get you in the mood?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Brandonbdc on 2023-06-27 13:46:04+00:00.

My girlfriend (26f) and I (26m) have been together for 3 years and our libidos don’t really match. However we make it work. Being the guy I can have sex basically anywhere any time, I’m always ready and need little to no external stimulation to get me going. Honestly it’s a blessing and a curse haha where as my girlfriend she only wants sex maybe 3-4 times a month.

I came here to ask what are some things i could do to help get her going? I know you may be thinking “ask her duh” well, I have and the answers she’s given me when I do them it doesn’t seem to work.

So I’m curious from a womans perspective what are some things your guy does that can turn you on or want him later in the night? Even if it has nothing to do with physical touch and it’s mental stuff.

Thank you!