Tips on how to seduce your man?

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/basilmint29 on 2023-06-27 13:27:49+00:00.

My bf and I have been together for over a year and the sex is great, but my libido is a bit higher than his. I know it's completely normal to have differences in libido but I can't help but feel insecure about it, I just wish he'd initiate a little more often so I'd feel more desired. We have talked about it but I don't want to bring it up again because you can't control your libido, I don't want to make him feel bad, and I also don't want him to exaggerate his desire to make me happy, I want it to be genuine.

I was thinking maybe there's some things I could do to try and turn him on before we even get to the bedroom to encourage him to initiate? I was thinking short skirts but it's very cold at the moment so any other suggestions would be great. We are in our early 20's and don't live together.