A Relationship Anarchist Perspective on QPRs(queerplatonic relationships) and Friendship
A Relationship Anarchist Perspective on QPRs(queerplatonic relationships) and Friendship
Where I talk about QPRs, relationship anarchy, how I personally find QPRs less useful of a concept than I used to.
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cross-posted from: https://slrpnk.net/post/2505921
Early on in my journey to understand my aspec identity, I came across the concept of queerplatonic relationships. As a baby aro, I found the concept of a relationship that is committed and intimate while also being wholly platonic incredibly liberating. Because of social programming, the thought that I could have intimacy and affection in a relationship without romance and sex had never occurred to me. I immediately knew that a QPR is something I wanted, and this started the long process of unlearning many of the social scripts I grew up with. As this process of deprogramming progressed and I opened my mind to what an interpersonal relationship is and what it can be, I eventually settled on relationship anarchy as the primary conceptualization scheme through which I understand the relationships in my life. However, as I began navigating relationships through the lens of relationship anarchy, the concept of a queerplatonic relationship started to become less and less intuitive to me, and I began to realize that the concept doesn’t necessarily map well to my conceptual model of relationships.