I am just wondering what matrix instances are recommended. I would rather not use the main matrix.org instance, but I still want something with good up-time, updated software and that is privacy respecting.
Thanks!
Update: I am trying arcticfoxes, thank you for all of your suggestions! Feel free to leave more as it may help others who come across this post in the future.
Update 2: I had an issue with cross signing, but it works on envs.net so I am assuming it's an issue with the arcticfoxes instance. I am now using envs.net. As I said before, feel free to leave more suggestions for others who come across this post.
here's a decent list of some public server instances you can look into. Tells you where they are located, if there are any rules or a privacy policy, what version of the server they're running, and some other stuff like that
Depending on rooms you create they might get removed. They have strict standards and ban without warning rooms they don't agree with. If you are just looking for a server to join other rooms then it's fine.