Not that I'm aware of. Hopefully we get these tools with time. But as I understand it federation is basically a push action, the community host instance sends the updates out to all the instances with users subscribed. The instances don't send a request asking for updates as far as I know.
I can see two comments from you on each post. Is that what you're referring to?
Also your account is marked as a bot account, did you want to check your user settings? There should be one setting to say it's a bot account and one to say you want to see posts from bot accounts.
I have another account that has it's home instance as lemmy.world, none of my comments are posting. I think the instance is really struggling at the moment.